is it today?

why a second vday thread?

do we get to say “dud” on the other one full of happy couples?

I haven’t opened it to find out, but I would add big, resounding DUD DUD DUD if we were allowed. But I’m too scared of the smug marrieds to open it up and find out. So I’m happy there’s a counter thread for opposing viewpoints.

I LOVE MY WIFE

ME TOO!

I should rephrase that.

Dud dud dudder of the duds. And I don’t even have a wife!

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haha, way to make Mr. Que’s vday a dud!

I would rather like a wife, though. Where can I get one? they sound like fun.

Smug Marrieds, hmmm...

I do post a fair bit about Amber/Alice, and rarely about my wife, mainly because she’s more keen on being a private person. She is outgoing and all that, so I tend not to come over all insufferable about this, to the point of being ‘secretive’ almost.

www.MyForeignBride.com

x-post does that make it more exciting?

Make what more exciting?

yeah i don’t think anyone on the internet could make my v day a dud!

I don’t want a foreign bride! I want a nice, local, organic wife or Ed will shout at me about my wife airmails!

I love the idea of marrying locally because of the smaller carbon footprint.

I don’t know, make “it”

I LOVE MY WIFE
— Mr. Que (pelagi...), February 14th, 2007. (Party with me Punker) (later)

ME TOO!

rofflicious.

i very rarely talk about my husband because, like mark’s wife, he prefers to be... not known on the net, i guess.

If I were a real hippie, I could knit mine own wife or something.

Let’s see—VDay sends me into a spiralling cycle of unfocussed jealous rage and suicidal depression so....

neither classic or dud. About average.

Our wuv is so strong we do not need Valentine’s Day.

Ha ha, you hate me now.

It’s funny, though. Couples like Mr. and Mrs. Monkey make me go all “awwww, there is hope in the world, coz they are such a lovely couple” while people who shout about how awesome their partner/their valentine’s day activities are going to be all over the internet provoke the ARGH ARGH SMUG MARRIEDS KILL KILL reaction.

Maybe I will steal my bandmate’s wife while she is in India!

Ah, you’re nice, thanks.

In fairness, Valentine’s Day is a lot worse than it used to be. I blame them over there. Who buys cards for people in their office on V-Day? If it’s for anything, it’s for confessing a secret crush.

I gave a boy in my class in school a V-Day card once, with no name on it, and later that afternoon I saw another girl in our class reading it. Cured me of that crush, I can tell you.

You’ll never guess what’s happening here at work! Someone came round with a single red rose for all the ladeez (yes, including Beryl). Now a bloke from upstairs is trawling round the building asking them if they want theirs because he forgot to buy any for his g/f.

Ha that is outrageous. Did they all scorn him?

I would have loved to hear Beryl’s reaction.

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Yep—he was sent packing. My colleague Esther suggested : ‘do what all the other losers do—buy them from a Polish guy at the traffic lights’.

I think Beryl’s gone for the day, which suggests HOT DATE, does it not?

ARGH ARGH SMUG MARRIEDS KILL KILL

unless you are Bridget Jones or Roisin Ingle there is no call to be using phrases like “smug marrieds”.

When people behave in stereotypical ways, they will get stereotypical phrases attached to them!

Not all people who are married are SMUG MARRIEDS. Not all people who are SMUG MARRIEDS are even married. It’s just a thing.

a fairly silly thing IMO.

Who’s shouting about it anyway, Kate? A few people have referred fairly in a self-mocking way about their efforts to mark the day. That’s all.

Kate referred to the possibility of SmugM’s being on t’other thread.

I don’t think they are even there anyway, much less Kate accusing anybody of being so.

yes, I’m talking about the other thread.

(I have not read the other thread. I hate VD, why would I want to read a thread about it? Occasionally something pops up in blog view, that’s mine only exposure. I am kinda kidding about the shouting, but I’m entitled to be bitter, ha ha ;-) )

i fucking love VD

ILX is full of awesome, happy couples who deserve each other. Blissfully smug-free, in fact. AND I AM PLENTY BITTER, DON’T THINK I’M NOT. But happy Valentine’s to the happily partnered among us.

I hate it. I always have. Even when I’ve been in relationships on VD, I always find it embarrassing and cringeworthy. Last year, I was IN a relationship at the time, and just found it awkward. I think I ended up booking a gig on VD itself so not to have to deal with the “how are we going to celebrate VD” thing.

We’re going out for VD tomorrow night.

Better choice of places available, I reckons.

oh wait. i hate valentine’s day. but i love venerial disease. that’s the VD i thought we were talking about.

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You say to other person “I’m not sure about this VD thing, how shall we celebrate it? Or shall we not? What do you think, other person?”

That’s worked for me.

I have never NOT been in a “relationship” (take as you will) on Valentine’s Day for the past 8 years. And every time, it’s basically lame! The best one was the year we went out with another couple and got incredibly drunk on sangria and gorged on tapas in NYC. It’s always stupid, I don’t want to get a load of chocolates what with being pre-diabetic and all, flowers are pretty and fun to put into interesting vases but they die and seem wasteful (also—it’s really only fun to get flowers unexpectedly, like from the homeless man wandering around selling them at 3am. Getting them for a holiday or birthday is completely “Oh well I reckon you forgot about the little lady, eh”), and really, unless you are specifically going to my AP wishlist and buying my goddamned size in what I actually want, plz to not give me lingerie. PLUS IT IS ALWAYS COLD ON VALENTINE’S DAY. I would really rather just go out to a nice dinner and basically do fuck all, play a video game or listen to some music or something. It’s a dumb holiday, though I do find valentine’s day cards very hilarious.

xpost lol @ VD

It was too early in that relationship to have that conversation, really.

In other relationships, I’ve made it perfectly clear that I freaking HATE VD, and I would MURDER them if they made a big deal of it. P ignored that, and made a huge fuss over it, ugh ugh ugh. J forgot it was even happening because he was doing some art exhibition, IIRC, and that was fine with me.

I love the idea of Valentine’s Day, but I’m not super fussed about celebrating it with hearts and flowers—if it happens, great, if not, no biggie. He knows I love him, I know he loves me. We’re good.

what luna said.

though we had dinner last night (standard tex-mex, nothing fancy) tonight I’ll be knitting and watching crap tv (lost, idol, bam’s unholy union reruns) while he preps the kitchen walls for my painting (ugh). So romantic!