pondering a pup

Also his assumption that neither of you could get dogs...is his assumption, right? He hasn't seen your lease... He doesn't know for certain that your lease says no dogs...

I just really want you to get this dog!!!!

me too!!!! it's so close!!!

so we found out some more info about neko (that's what we're calling her, it's the only name we could agree on): she once peed in the car of her original owner (fyi she was just a PUPPY) and he beat her so badly that she sustained a broken back, broken ribs and a collapsed lung. the only good thing to come of it was that it happened in a public parking lot and some good citizens called the cops on him.

Ugh horrible, horrible person. You will give her such a nice home!

We finally got a home inspection scheduled by the rescue group, but now the LL says that she has been too tired to look into pet leases this week AND she has to give us 30 days notice for any lease amendments?? I mean, seriously?? So I don't even know of neko will still be available :/

Also they don't have enough foster homes available so she is being kenneled right new which is really bumming me out :(

OMG JUST GIVE ME MY DOG ALREADY

Ughhh this is ridiculous. 30 days? Why? I think that's to protect tenants which obviously isn't an issue here. Seriously i called my landlord and asked him and he said "you go get yourself a dog, miss tehresa!" Done. Do you want me to have him talk to her?

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only good thing about today!

j show us a picture please

Tomorrow!.definitely taking my camera and getting a million glamor shots of her.

We are gonna pay her boarding costs between now and adoption, so they will hold her for us!

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we spent about 2 hours with her today, she was such a good girl, really well behaved and we have yet to hear her bark, even when she saw squirrels she wanted to chase. she has the softest, loveliest fur, and she's very trusting and affectionate for such an abused dog.

Awww j looks so happy!

it was the best! we're going to spend another couple hours with her tomorrow too!

j&j she is so beautiful and she looks perfect for you both and so loved already. i'm so glad she has won the puppy lottery after that horrible beginning.

and basil is as beguiling and beautiful as ever.

<3

can't help sharing this one from this afternoon!

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I bought her a backpack because I think she should start carrying her own weight when we hike, but i have no idea if it fits properly. I guess i will find out tomorrow!

love her.

her new backpack reminds me of that tv show called 'dogs with jobs'.

i like neko. i'd like a dog like that but it's too hot here i think. dog backpack seems like it could make a dog feel very useful.

They like to have jobs. I think it makes them happier. Basil also likes to herd people when we're hiking!

Neko looks so sweet! I can't wait for her to come home!

harbl their coats are good at keeping them cool or warm - they have a weird double coat. they only thing they say is to not exercise them during the hotter hours, and to esp beware of hot pavement (if it's too hot for your bare feet, it's too hot for their paws). but they also need tons of human attention and can't really be left alone much - we are lucky with our schedules/jobs, so she will only be alone probably 6-7 hrs 2-3 times a week at the most.

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she looks really wolf-y in this pic, but irl she is super friendly-looking!

she is so great :)

she is beautiful, she looks a bit like f's dad's dog (rip) who was part tundra wolf/ part malamute and who was very beautiful and gentle and liked to sit squashed up in an armchair with a droll look in his eye.

ominous voicemail from LL

can't get hold of her

99% sure she is going to renege on this whole thing

wtf are we gonna do, we're already totally emotionally committed

Nooo! If she does you should just put in your 30 days notice and find a new place so you can have neko next month like planned (wishful thinking, i know).

omg

LL is legit nutso!~ she has been on ph with poor ytth for like an hour, STILL unclear if it's yay or nay

she is mad that we are paying the boarding fees at the kennel - we have BETRAYED HER TRUST... but it has nothing to do with her! we haven't taken ownnership/guardianship of neko, we just made a donation to n0rsled in order for them to take a good faith commitment. LL is claiming that she never actually said yes we are moving forward, which is a lie.

j looks like he's about to have a breakdown, is pacing entire house

i might throw up

j is a hero - so calm and diplomatic. if i had to speak to her i would be losing my shit right now. she talks nonstop for about 15mins at a time, letting j get in about 10 words.

wtf, consciously or not (and who care which) she is fucking with you. how dare she hurt you both like this, how dare she try to deprive neko of a ready, great home while promoting herself as a dog lover.

i know!!! it turns out it was a major miscommunication, that i tbh i think is entirely her fault BUT i guess we should have known not to do anything till we had it on paper. j is still on ph with her FYI, but it seems he is making good progress...??

i also owe him a huge debt for all this - he is the one who ALWAYS deals with her, which means about an average of 5 hrs ph time p/month.

the problem is: if she says no we will absolutely have to move, bc we know that neko is our dog and we have made a commitment to her, even if it's just in our minds.

i am also extra super pissed bc we had another amazing full day with neko, came home on a high, got ruined by LL

yesterday: had amazing day with neko, came home, invited "good" friends over for celebratory drinks, the woman-half of the friends gave me a bunch of condescending, unsolicited dog "advice", even though they have a rat terrier mix, which is a TOTALLY DIFFERENT KIND OF DOG in all ways to a siberian husky. she was so unbelievably rude and awful about it, and really hurt my feelings (aw emo), that i don't actually ever want to see her again. it made me realise she is always this way, and has been quite rude to me before, but i've brushed it off bc it hasn't really mattered - but someone implying that i don't know shit about taking care of a husky, and that i'm a terrible person for taking the recommendations of the highly experienced rescue ppl we are working with + many authoritative resources... i mean, i am without doubt gonna be the best dog owner in the world, don't try and tell me otherwise or i will fucking end you.

ps sorry this tza thread about beautiful basil has turned into my liveblog of doglife

yes, also she must not be allowed to make the keeping neko or not decision, don't give her any more control over you than she has already. you will find a way. xxp

ok j is a champion of champions and has smoothed over the entire thing - we are moving forward!!!!

whoa, did you guys know i was on the sandbox? i didn't, but i guess i must have registered ages ago. anyway, thanks for everyone's concern about our horrible dog situation. or our amazing dog horrible situation. either way, after 90 minutes of trying to reason with my landlord, she's back on board with "moving the process forward," having forgiven me for being "way out of line," acting in "bad faith," and being an "untrustworthy tenant." and also for "pressuring" her, "taking her out of the decision process," and "only hearing what i want to hear." i'm happy i managed to repair everything, since i wanted to start screaming at her instead, but the bad news is that she sees this process taking 6-8 weeks, which means poor neko has to stay in a kennel for two months while we come to visit her on weekends. but, if this whole thing ends, it will have been worth it. i'm just so incredibly drained by the process, and i don't even have a warm soft dog at me fee to comfort me. (though i do have a warm soft wife, just not at my feet, that would be weird and subjugating.)

i meant to say if this whole thing ends with us taking neko home for good.

omg i am so irate for you guys!!! I would start looking for another place anyway. Dog or not, this kind of manipulation and neediness is such crap. And once neko comes home she could get worse.

And yeah, people are always going to give you unsolicited dog advice. I have learned to just smoke and ignore.

it sounds as if you did great today; i probably would have cried with fury. if the landlady uses email you could write her a bullet point list of what you've mutually agreed to so far, and then do it after each future conversation to keep things straightforward. say something like, it was nice talking to you, here's what we have agreed on, if there's anything here you need to discuss further please let us know. (of course that will trigger a bit more dithering but at least you'll have in writing what is going on.)

i was also thinking that if things fell apart again and you did end up calling her bluff and getting neko anyway she might then go through a protracted dilemma about whether to kick you all out or not and find herself unable to go through with it and her indecision could end up serving you for a change.

Lol autocorrect! *smile and ignore!!!!
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Ytth, i bet your customer relationship management is amazing.

Ytth is the most tactful and diplomatic person I know and amazing at remaining calm and articulate. I would have cried and yelled and told her she was trouble human being, and then we'd be really screwed.

*terrible

I think she is trouble, too, but not the good kind.

LL emailed tonight, after we spent the whole day with neko, and totally reneged: the whole process has just proved "too stressful" and is now adversely affecting her "health".

so now we are moving and the new-house hunt begins tomorrow.

oh ffs

i'm so sorry

yeah it was pretty devastating, not gonna lie - i cried pretty hard for about 2 hours, then ytth came to the rescue with a plan, so i'm feeling better. i guess we always knew she might do this, but after she said 'yes' we figured it was a done deal, just a matter of her getting organized and actually getting us the lease to sign.

Best of luck on finding just the right place quickly for you guys and lovely Neko. I'm sorry it came down to it.

Ugh, I'm so sorry. Hopefully you can find something quickly! <3

basil met my almost seven week old niece today and she adored her! i was so proud! she was on her best behavior and was calm and relaxed and gentle around her :)

Any developments, j?

My coworker impulse bought a boxer puppy this weekend. I have kind of been quietly judging her because i spent MY Saturday volunteering at a doggie adoption event, hanging with four perfectly adorable mixed breed puppies while she dropped $750 on an unregistered pup. Am i just hating because i originally wanted a boxer and am jealous of her adorable dog that everyone at work will inevitably obsess over and love more than basil? Or am i justified in thinking it is dumb to buy a puppy? Btw i love my basil and wouldn't trade her, quirks and all!