mark ruffalo is attractive

i don't think it is in any way possible to imagine such a space in which gender is abolished. and to do so would be to imagine a completely different context for desire from the one we are stuck in. what you are trying to do is p much just as dumb as what you are actually doing.

What am I doing/trying to do? If I were to speak for myself, I'd say that I'm expressing an ideal of a relationship of equals, whatever the gender, one which I think is often roughly descriptive of reality and will become increasingly moreso. Obviously, there is no true and complete equality between any two individuals, and you could argue that most relationships are founded upon one or more forms of inequality, perhaps shifting back and forth between the participants, but I think it's a useful notion, both descriptively and prescriptively.

This is an ongoing problem, when some people are "speaking academically" from some abstract "intellectual" position and others of us are speaking from the flesh and bone experiences of our actual lives.

I would not and did not claim to be speaking about your life. Why do you insist upon my inability to speak about others' and my own because it does not match yours?

well then surely "threatening" is ,in this (irrelevant) formulation, a positive attribute

It's like trying to talk to someone who insists that the sky is green. And you know, maybe he is actually colour blind? But no matter how many times ppl explain to him "it's commonly agreed that the sky is the colour called blue" he still just goes on insisting that it's green.

I really admire horseshoe and shakey mo for being able to keep being reasonable for do long.

He was filming in my home town and would come into the restaurant I worked at a bunch, with his fam and that guy from the sopranos.he was SUPER fucking nice, polite, authentically and easily charming, better-looking irl, and his kids were well-behaved. And he tipped really well. Xp to hs

Also I'm VERY EXCITED to look at that olyphant tumblr when I get home

yay! i knew he was nice! the version of stanley tucci i made up in my head is v nice.

You were otm

WS Stanley Tucci. Only god can judge me.

Stanly Tucci - Only God Can Touch Me

you are not alone, Nicole

I really want Mark Ruffalo to find this thread and read what happened here today.

My interest is much more in discovering the basis of the attraction rather than judging it,

If a person wants to know the answer to a thing perhaps they could think about asking the question insteading of providing an answer themselves

I guess the reason you are walking through this park is.....because shh no don't tell me I got this one...its because you are subconsciously expressing your secret desire to own....a cocker spaniel!? How about that! I bet you didn't even realize!

I learned a lot about people today

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April A++++ OTM. Excelsior!

Ha, the kids fell in love with my Auntie Joan's black cocker spaniel over Xmas.

watching donofrio in mystic pizza starring julia roberts

Just read all the hubbub from yesterday. If I didn't know better, it almost felt like Shakey Mo and everyone else were trolling the hell out of CK Dexter Holland. Good on ya, 'neb, for sticking up for yourself.

lol

classic thread, revive for his hulk. he's lost the schlub, but it'll be back.

horseshoe you are really hung up on this fatness thing--the bloat is holistic, it includes the mind, the body, the head, which expands, the general aura

― max max max max, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 02:06 (2 years ago)

i think a key component of the bloat is the head-area, when you bloat it almost doubles in size, not just fat but the entire skull and brain probably

― max max max max, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 02:09 (2 years ago)

<3

horseshoe you are really hung up on this fatness thing--the bloat is holistic, it includes the mind, the body, the head, which expands, the general aura

― max max max max, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 02:06 (2 years ago)

i think a key component of the bloat is the head-area, when you bloat it almost doubles in size, not just fat but the entire skull and brain probably

― max max max max, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 02:09 (2 years ago)

This bloat has sailed

ok now i get it