sandbox GAYS

In about 2003 ago I stayed at a hostile at around 104th and Amsterdam Ave that cost me <$30/night. 2 bunk beds per room, clean, web. I looked it up last year and it still existed. Hostiling America or something like that.

Hosteling, not hostiling....

If not this time, I will be in NYC for sure in March for EMP and we will FAP then

I'll be there too -- this sounds epic. EMP-FAP!

GOD I just returned from a party at which a Venezuelan liberal who works for Bank of America dominated my attention: long bangs, 95-degree-angle nose, perfect English. Single and just broke up with his partner. I haven't had a good crush in months.

my sched might be tight (haven't been to NYC in three years, lots of old pals there), but I'm open to working something out!

I am a well-known river wolf fan, even tho I apparently have no memory of once meeting him.

also I think I prefer John Candy's Divine to Divine #actualcomedy #heresy

guys

1 girl 5 gays

what is this

oh btw i might be in nyc sometime between now and march, but probably not for emp weekend

1 girl 5 gays is the absolute worst.

it's canadian. it's the absolute worst. the host is the worst. the questions are the worst. it's designed for girls who want a gay best friend. it's the worst.

the second guy i ever slept with is occasionally a panelist. which makes me giggle a fair bit.

I saw about 20 minutes of it once and was just like "uhhhhhhh"

I had a big gay dinner party last night for me, my boyf, my two housemates, and one of their boyfs. I made the food (lacinato kale salad w/ a garlic/lemon/Pecorino dressing, Kabocha squash soup, goat cheese and sundried tomato ravioli, and a cranberry-orange swirl cheesecake) and my housemate picked the music ("I'm just going to search for 'Christmas diva' on SoundCloud") and everyone loved it and it was awesome!!

that sounds amazing

It's only around TG and Xmas that, while sober, I feel the urge to go to Steamworks. But it's too depressing to really do.

Maybe not actually depressing, but it seems like it should be depressing.

Not as festive as lying on the couch eating Genoa salami dipped in crushed chili garlic sauce.

lol

found a bottle of who-even-knows-how-many-years-old dewar's in the back of my parents' liquor cabinet.

CHRISTMAS MIRACLE

one thing I do miss from when I still ate meat -- SUMMER SAUSAGE

for some reason "rum and pepsi" sounds way less classy than "rum and coke"

Rum and RC, anyone?

oh, huh, so apparently i have a lesbian cousin. total gaydar fail.

to be fair. cross-gender gaydar might not be as well-tuned, since you have less of a personal stake in knowing that sort of thing?

i dunno. i never had any inkling whatsoever. then again, i've never been close to her. and my cousin i've always thought was obviously gay as fuck is still with her boyfriend 3 or 4 years running.

lol xmas bathhouse

sup with y'all

bored as fuck today

my boyfriend comes back tomorrow

we spent two hours last night more or less staring at each other on skype

shit is gay as fuck

i bought lube today, that was a fun experience

this place was like 75% sex shop/25% head shop, which made for a small but interesting crowd of people

I buy mine from Walgreens u_u

feel like computerised supermarket checkout lanes are finally vindicated by that kinda thing, either that or strident & proud purchasing from retailers

i bought lube today, that was a fun experience

progress!

i sometimes use lube to thin acrylic paint which means i buy a load of it in one go

Yeah I don't mind buying condoms/lube at the normal register. Of course, I don't make a point of doing it there.

i do sometimes for fun, and make loads of chitchat

Browsing at a head shop can turn awkward when you realize you're browsing the crack/meth pipes.

The boy is sending me pictures from isolated rural etc. of abandoned houses in the snow that he discovered while snowshoeing and so forth.

I don't want to be with him because I miss him (well, that too) but because it looks SO FUCKIN COOL

I need to get lube again soon. What did y'all get? Elmo recommended Maximus which I love, and Gun Oil's great too but potentially stainy. I also hear wondrous things about JO but their H2O formula is terrrrrrible.

My ex confessed to me that in a cruising hookup, he and the other guy used Dr Pepper bc that was the only liquid they had available.

i got one (1) small bottle of JO silicon based

will report back

I haven't gotten a new tube in a while; I don't usually go that far.

we aren't using it for anal -- at least not yet (?)

at least not yet (?)

I think you'll know if you're using it for anal.

Should I just cave and buy silicone lube even though it stains? I mean also there's something lovely about being able to flop down after a nice fucking and fall asleep without having to go shower bcz everything just dries away.

The best lube I've ever used was sweet almond oil during a bit of frot and ohhh myyy goooodddd

I mean it was more than just a bit tbh

i forgot you don't have that other thread anymore

we need the real board back so bad.

Good morning. Hoping everyone made it through the nice well lubricated.

I was planning to have my share of casual sex this week (ie, some) but my postcold lingers, and echoey rumbling coughs just aren't a good come-on.

bf's parents are visiting — IOW no sex until they leave (tomorrow or the next day)