sandbox GAYS

Do you guys want to have a gay fap + river wolf on the 2-4th? Does that work for Lou and morbs and Donna?

I bought Phi11ip a french folio edition of camus's l'etranger and some lapsang souchong

and those were the only xmas gifts I bought for anyone this year tbh

no bf here to speak of. and that's fine with me, tbh. (tho i am glad for those of y'all with newly minted bfs)

also i am only on the east coast til the 28th :( (morbs: if you read this, prob not making it up tonight, sorryyyy)

yeah im really hoping everybody else in my family stuck to the not buying christmas presents deal we made

yeah i have no interest in having a bf either but like i really do wish i had managed to make at least one homo friend here. this is my only regret. i know plenty of lesbians. lesbians love me. i assumed there would be at least a couple gays on my program but i only know for sure about this one impossibly pretty spanish guy who is shy and elusive and who i have never managed to actually speak to. this thread is so weird to read atm. i havent really checked in in a long time and i didn't realise that you would all be in domestic bliss.

question for NYCers: recommendations on cheap places to stay? are hostels actually decent? google is telling me about this NYC loft hostel which looks reasonably priced and decent albeit, very hipstery. Thoughts?

is that the one in wburg, on like n4th or something?
my friend stayed there & liked it, i think the building is p nice

(i looked it up & i think it is maybe a diff place)

Ok. It looks like we're coming down the 2nd or the 3rd and only staying for 3 nights/4 days because I can't talk the stubborn boy into anything. I am totally down for a FAP. Hopefully he can be convinced to join but he's a little skittish with new people.

If not this time, I will be in NYC for sure in March for EMP and we will FAP then

I'll come to NYC... some day.

In about 2003 ago I stayed at a hostile at around 104th and Amsterdam Ave that cost me <$30/night. 2 bunk beds per room, clean, web. I looked it up last year and it still existed. Hostiling America or something like that.

Hosteling, not hostiling....

If not this time, I will be in NYC for sure in March for EMP and we will FAP then

I'll be there too -- this sounds epic. EMP-FAP!

GOD I just returned from a party at which a Venezuelan liberal who works for Bank of America dominated my attention: long bangs, 95-degree-angle nose, perfect English. Single and just broke up with his partner. I haven't had a good crush in months.

my sched might be tight (haven't been to NYC in three years, lots of old pals there), but I'm open to working something out!

I am a well-known river wolf fan, even tho I apparently have no memory of once meeting him.

also I think I prefer John Candy's Divine to Divine #actualcomedy #heresy

guys

1 girl 5 gays

what is this

oh btw i might be in nyc sometime between now and march, but probably not for emp weekend

1 girl 5 gays is the absolute worst.

it's canadian. it's the absolute worst. the host is the worst. the questions are the worst. it's designed for girls who want a gay best friend. it's the worst.

the second guy i ever slept with is occasionally a panelist. which makes me giggle a fair bit.

I saw about 20 minutes of it once and was just like "uhhhhhhh"

I had a big gay dinner party last night for me, my boyf, my two housemates, and one of their boyfs. I made the food (lacinato kale salad w/ a garlic/lemon/Pecorino dressing, Kabocha squash soup, goat cheese and sundried tomato ravioli, and a cranberry-orange swirl cheesecake) and my housemate picked the music ("I'm just going to search for 'Christmas diva' on SoundCloud") and everyone loved it and it was awesome!!

that sounds amazing

It's only around TG and Xmas that, while sober, I feel the urge to go to Steamworks. But it's too depressing to really do.

Maybe not actually depressing, but it seems like it should be depressing.

Not as festive as lying on the couch eating Genoa salami dipped in crushed chili garlic sauce.

lol

found a bottle of who-even-knows-how-many-years-old dewar's in the back of my parents' liquor cabinet.

CHRISTMAS MIRACLE

one thing I do miss from when I still ate meat -- SUMMER SAUSAGE

for some reason "rum and pepsi" sounds way less classy than "rum and coke"

Rum and RC, anyone?

oh, huh, so apparently i have a lesbian cousin. total gaydar fail.

to be fair. cross-gender gaydar might not be as well-tuned, since you have less of a personal stake in knowing that sort of thing?

i dunno. i never had any inkling whatsoever. then again, i've never been close to her. and my cousin i've always thought was obviously gay as fuck is still with her boyfriend 3 or 4 years running.

lol xmas bathhouse

sup with y'all

bored as fuck today

my boyfriend comes back tomorrow

we spent two hours last night more or less staring at each other on skype

shit is gay as fuck

i bought lube today, that was a fun experience

this place was like 75% sex shop/25% head shop, which made for a small but interesting crowd of people

I buy mine from Walgreens u_u

feel like computerised supermarket checkout lanes are finally vindicated by that kinda thing, either that or strident & proud purchasing from retailers

i bought lube today, that was a fun experience

progress!

i sometimes use lube to thin acrylic paint which means i buy a load of it in one go

Yeah I don't mind buying condoms/lube at the normal register. Of course, I don't make a point of doing it there.

i do sometimes for fun, and make loads of chitchat

Browsing at a head shop can turn awkward when you realize you're browsing the crack/meth pipes.

The boy is sending me pictures from isolated rural etc. of abandoned houses in the snow that he discovered while snowshoeing and so forth.

I don't want to be with him because I miss him (well, that too) but because it looks SO FUCKIN COOL

I need to get lube again soon. What did y'all get? Elmo recommended Maximus which I love, and Gun Oil's great too but potentially stainy. I also hear wondrous things about JO but their H2O formula is terrrrrrible.