Watercooler 0: Nothing Is A Problem For Me

Oh why did I drink so much last night? I knew I should have gone home after the gig. Gooblar, I curse you and the PBW and your hangover inducing ways.

Will this hangover ever go away?

Next time after a gig, I'm not going drinking afterwards. Not for all the pretty boys in Canada.

HURRAH though, i am back at the lovely job from tues :) and then i have another one the week after that. lovely lady at temping agency told me lovely things about people saying lovely stuff.

I've got a feeling I'm gonna be here a million years, but I ain't leaving until I've cracked this tricky problem with the Data Profile Co-efficients.

Oh, the crapulent abyss, the chasm of the aftereffects. I think I may still have been drunk this morning when I woke up.

Why do I have to be such a freak? Why can't I just be normal for once in my life? It's not fair. :-(

No.

Pop star boys - GOOD

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I haven't dated anyone for, ooh, years and years and years, but I think if you are struggling to talk to someone and need the pointers of interweb mentalists also not in relationships as a guide for how to hold a conversation, then that's a sign right there that this isn't perhaps the person for you. You will KNOW when you click with someone, when conversation comes easily. Do you struggle this much to become friends with people? The process is pretty much the same.

I am appalling at picking team names in pub quizzes, sorry. I also tend to be quite drunk and laugh heartily at everyone else's amusing efforts before forgetting all about them by the end of the night. Sorry. Anyway, the pubs round our way just have smutty innuendo-laden names, not clever witticisms. (and no, I can't remember any of them)

Actually, Ken sort of said this already, didn't he? This:

i much prefer to just try and have a good time than seeing a date as some kind of data mining exercise with speed and efficiency being an issue! see in my ideal date either person will just start talking about anything, interest or not, and the other will listen and respond accordingly, with no agenda like "i'm going to find out this this this and this about you by 9:15 and then i'll tell you how much i like the same thing" because i find that that usually hinders a genuine conversation.

Seriously, it's not that hard to talk to people! And if you have issues with talking to and dealing with people in general, perhaps you might want to address that before expecting to snare the love of your life over the course of an agenda-laden evening?

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But yeah, you're right, I'm a psycho and a mentalist and have no business even speaking to people in the first place, as I've proved over and over again.

God, I need sleep.

Yes, I'm married. There's a reason I got that way too. But, yeah, as someone who successfully dated someone to the point that we realised that we got on well enough to continue doing this for the rest of my life, I thought I may be in a position to offer advice (and, FYI, not that it's any of your business, I went through a fuckload of disastrous soul-destroying relationships built on desperation, nothing, sex, all manner of doomed-to-failure reasons before this one turned up).

But I guess I'm just a "smug married" in your eyes, rather than someone who learned a bit about how to do this relationship stuff successfully. Sorry for thinking my experience was relevant.

(btw, if people in relationships piss you off so much, why do you want to be in one so much?)

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(Morning! Happy December! White rabbits!)

But yeh, I do need to take the pressure of myself - I really do feel that I HAVE to at least have an opinion of someone after a few hours, otherwise what's the point? Although maybe this is where I'm going wrong . . .

"My mommy said I was crying in my sleep because I had bad dreams."

but if there are, then it's CASH IN.

They obviously explained to the kid that he under no circumstances was to accurately describe any of the bad guys to the police, right?

That's great, Ken! We are the defending champs, so we ought to have a folk enchance, BUT....I like it.

Or not like that at all?

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I think

Or not like that at all?

eheh no not really! i left it at the shimura sisters' house the other night bc it got a puncture which i fixed but then when i tried to leave it had another one and it was 1am and i couldn't be arsed, just wanted to get moving, plus they had to go to sleep. i am bloody sick of it taking twice as long to get everywhere. and i had to miss the end of the monade gig last night to get the last train. and monade were ACE.

God, I was tired and emotional yesterday. I'm back on top of the world today, and everything is wonderful. Hurrah! It's Friday, let the flirting commence. Except, bah, I'm on Month End today, boo hiss, etc.