Jesus Crap, this fucking guy. He's still IMing me, professing love....love that, when not returned, turns to agony. He's a walking telenovela.
This would be kind of awesome if I found him appealing in the least. I'd be all over that.
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 18:40 (twelve years ago) link
"hold tight" is the best song chic never wrote
― nuhnuhnuh, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 18:52 (twelve years ago) link
Except for "Paradise" and "Miracles." Damn, that's a gorgeous album.
― Detrius of Life (Eric H.), Wednesday, 21 December 2011 19:09 (twelve years ago) link
my boyfriend is gone for six days now, after having spent the night w/ him for 5 of the last 6
i already feel hella bored
we smoked weed and watched music videos w/ this awesome friend of his, then we had sex (VERY HUMBLE BRAG) so that was fun
i've basically spent the last week in a weird state of total buoyancy and happiness crossed with searching for reasons why i'm fucking everything up or in some sort of mirage
― v-shasty, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:20 (twelve years ago) link
sorry for being one those guys itt, idk
Submit to it for as long as the feeling lasts.
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:22 (twelve years ago) link
thx, al
― v-shasty, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:25 (twelve years ago) link
chicago gays: have you heard anything about this? friend of mine who lives there just posted this on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Pink-Panther-Justice-Bureau/342423585771304
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:31 (twelve years ago) link
also j0rd don't let the "am i fucking this up?" thing get the best of you (he says, from experience) - it's tough to be clear-eyed about this sort of thing but alfred's advice is good
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:32 (twelve years ago) link
which, speaking of: the martini with a splash of st. germain is my favorite discovery of the week, thanks alfred!
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:33 (twelve years ago) link
my bf & i sort of talked about it and i've talked to some other friends of mine who basically gave me the same advice but the anxiety is still there
anyway, thx
― v-shasty, Wednesday, 21 December 2011 23:35 (twelve years ago) link
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, December 21, 2011 5:31 PM (56 minutes ago) Bookmark Permalink
whoa, i lived just around the corner from archie's for a year and i really liked it. it always struck me as an archetypal chicago corner bar--it's been around for like 50 years, everyone there is super friendly, they have an old hamm's sign ("from the land of sky blue waters"), and they have homemade cheese puffs for bar snacks. one of the bartenders would always say hi to me when i saw her around the neighborhood. i never got to any of the queer nights there, though. really sucks to hear about this.
― 1staethyr, Thursday, 22 December 2011 00:37 (twelve years ago) link
I had not heard of this group or about the incident at Archie's. Corey lives very near there.
― Sandbox Jesse, Thursday, 22 December 2011 01:25 (twelve years ago) link
My pleasure! Isn't this refreshing? The sourness of the gin complements the St. Germain.
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 22 December 2011 03:10 (twelve years ago) link
Oh wow, that story about Archie's is terrible. I'm never going there again.
― tanuki, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:22 (twelve years ago) link
JF is gone, but I'm curled up in his bed with his cat reading a book.
― lexferenda, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:30 (twelve years ago) link
My bf Phillip is watching Myrrha for me while I'm in FL for the week. She apparently slept cuddled next to him - something she never does with me. ;_;
― tanuki, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:37 (twelve years ago) link
He is chewing on a blanket, which according to Google is calling smurgling? Why are there words for very particular cat behaviours. I don't understand.
― lexferenda, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:38 (twelve years ago) link
xp Aw. Maybe she just misses your presence and needs more comfort than usual?
― lexferenda, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:39 (twelve years ago) link
actually it's probably the fact that she sleeps by the radiator at home, and his place doesn't have one
― tanuki, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:46 (twelve years ago) link
according to google or according to crazy cat owners?
― silvana mangano, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:49 (twelve years ago) link
(yourselves excluded from the crazy bit, obv)
― silvana mangano, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:50 (twelve years ago) link
As much as I talk to my cat, I definitely qualify as crazy.
― tanuki, Thursday, 22 December 2011 05:53 (twelve years ago) link
The house I'm abt to move into comes with the most hyperactive kitten I have evah seen and it mewsand snuggles and then darts across the kitchen and dining room at like 300mph
― Stevie :-D, Thursday, 22 December 2011 18:51 (twelve years ago) link
who else is visiting NYC in holiday interregnum besides donna? and river wolf?
― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 22 December 2011 18:52 (twelve years ago) link
http://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/532537bf.jpg
― Stevie :-D, Thursday, 22 December 2011 18:59 (twelve years ago) link
How long are they visiting?? My guy and I were planning a trip up to NYC soon
wait when did all you people get boyfriends
― judith, Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:02 (twelve years ago) link
uhhhh a week ago!
― v-shasty, Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:21 (twelve years ago) link
I'm getting a girlfriend just to shake things up a bit.
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:26 (twelve years ago) link
I'm getting gay married to Alfred's girlfriend.
― Detrius of Life (Eric H.), Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:32 (twelve years ago) link
fuck!
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:33 (twelve years ago) link
can we get these sig others to post here? thx
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 22 December 2011 19:44 (twelve years ago) link
can we get corey's cat to post as well?
― judith, Thursday, 22 December 2011 20:58 (twelve years ago) link
this is all so fast paced though. maybe i should get a boyfriend.
― judith, Thursday, 22 December 2011 20:59 (twelve years ago) link
I will just keep bearding for society matrons
― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 22 December 2011 21:03 (twelve years ago) link
Winter Bearding for Society Matrons: ILX Gays 2011-2012
???
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 22 December 2011 22:47 (twelve years ago) link
judith, who art thou?
― tanuki, Friday, 23 December 2011 00:32 (twelve years ago) link
judith is plax
I will be in NYC from the 30th to the 4th! how exciting!
― river wolf, Friday, 23 December 2011 00:35 (twelve years ago) link
The boy and I are (probably) going to be in NYC from January 2 until the 6th or 7th, but I'm still trying to figure out reasonable accommodations etc. before buying bus tickets.
― lexferenda, Friday, 23 December 2011 02:54 (twelve years ago) link
I'd totally be down for a FAP, but I'm not sure how skittish JF will decide to be. He can be a bit shy.
oh hey.
― souslatablelaplage, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:00 (twelve years ago) link
sarge, i was noticing the other day that you continue to look really fine.
also, morbz and lou and everyone in nyc: i'm sorry. it was a whirlwind weekend, a bit less than 48 hours, and all i could muster was going out and getting wasted with a few of my best friends, then spending the next day recovering, then doing it all again, then eating brunch and leaving.
― souslatablelaplage, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:02 (twelve years ago) link
ha, thanks man
― v-shasty, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:02 (twelve years ago) link
and hey, my boyfriend and i missed each other so much when i was gone it was paaaainnnful, almost. lots of silly text messages. we pulled a "wahoo" in a famous Castro diner the night i got back.
― souslatablelaplage, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:04 (twelve years ago) link
i've sent sooo many gay text messages in the two days that my bf has been gone
― v-shasty, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:05 (twelve years ago) link
the boy and i think that we are the only ones who use emoticons. i do the winking one constantly, as in, ;-) (what i really want to say is that i want to bone you right now)
― souslatablelaplage, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:13 (twelve years ago) link
*code*
i'm trying to test my bf's level of emoticon usage. i can get on some pai mei shit.
― v-shasty, Friday, 23 December 2011 03:19 (twelve years ago) link