sandbox GAYS

and their adult children buy them color TVs to keep them away from the gardener.

In a few decades scholars will wonder why despite the hysterical over-arrangement of sets and furniture Jane Wyman was still wan as fuck.

tree trimmer xp

i'm excited about going back home to see family and friends but i definitely don't like xmas as much as i used to

my bf despises xmas, i can only manage a dazed "whatever."

valley inversions set in last week. it will basically look and feel like mordor here until february. the smog is so bad i have a perpetual headache. of course, ten minutes up the canyon and it's clear, sunny and ten degrees warmer. kicking myself for not saving up for a season pass at one of the ski resorts this year.

I love Christmas being over

"a dazed 'whatever'" = me today, to a t

hey gayz, dr3w says hi, but he won't be tempted by the sandbox.

& mart1n said he's read my posts! I apologized.

hi

hi!

i admire dr3w's willpower

so i have a boyfriend now

i'm wearing his deodorant right now so i smell just like him, it's kinda nice

tryna take things slow, but damn

maybe you'll smile more now in your monthly self-pic, sweetie. :)

i probably will!

now get to work on your dreadful taste in music and baseball teams!

morbs!

i kid bcz i love

get to work on liking Ne-Yo.

get to work on liking Ne-Yo.

― Lord Sotosyn, Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:47 AM (3 hours ago) Bookmark Permalink

Even that Champagne Libra Whateverthefuckitwascalled Superhero album?

oh yay, i'm excited about being treated to a fuller range of jordan s facial expressions

hey gays

y'all should read this, it is hilarious:

http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/12/gay-art-world-guy-searching-for-rebound-sex.html

3:05 p.m.: Grindr in the back of a cab.

this led me to put on "heart failed (in the back of a taxi)"

3:36, it's cold, I know I'm growing old

Here I am again,
Early morning cold taxi

I don't get it.

a quote from one of the Drive songs.

oh, thank God I've forgotten those already, cept a little of that "hero" shit.

So, the frenemy IMed me

michael If you need something, I'm here. You'll always hold a special place in my heart. That said, let's not fool ourselves that we can be around each other in a healthy, mutually respectful way.

This b/c I wouldn't let him in my building at 2 a.m. when he texted me "I need you to be a good friend right now," and other shit, trying to manipulate me into letting him fuck me.

"I NEED YOU TO BE A GOOD FRIEND RIGHT NOW"!!

That is creepy, creepy shit!

Sounds like you weren't fooling yourself.

meanwhile I've listened to Change's "Hold Tight" six times in thirty minutes.

Jesus Crap, this fucking guy. He's still IMing me, professing love....love that, when not returned, turns to agony. He's a walking telenovela.

This would be kind of awesome if I found him appealing in the least. I'd be all over that.

"hold tight" is the best song chic never wrote

Except for "Paradise" and "Miracles." Damn, that's a gorgeous album.

my boyfriend is gone for six days now, after having spent the night w/ him for 5 of the last 6

i already feel hella bored

we smoked weed and watched music videos w/ this awesome friend of his, then we had sex (VERY HUMBLE BRAG) so that was fun

i've basically spent the last week in a weird state of total buoyancy and happiness crossed with searching for reasons why i'm fucking everything up or in some sort of mirage

sorry for being one those guys itt, idk

Submit to it for as long as the feeling lasts.

thx, al

chicago gays: have you heard anything about this? friend of mine who lives there just posted this on FB:

https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Pink-Panther-Justice-Bureau/342423585771304

also j0rd don't let the "am i fucking this up?" thing get the best of you (he says, from experience) - it's tough to be clear-eyed about this sort of thing but alfred's advice is good

which, speaking of: the martini with a splash of st. germain is my favorite discovery of the week, thanks alfred!

my bf & i sort of talked about it and i've talked to some other friends of mine who basically gave me the same advice but the anxiety is still there

anyway, thx

chicago gays: have you heard anything about this? friend of mine who lives there just posted this on FB:

https://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Pink-Panther-Justice-Bureau/342423585771304

― silvana mangano, Wednesday, December 21, 2011 5:31 PM (56 minutes ago) Bookmark Permalink

whoa, i lived just around the corner from archie's for a year and i really liked it. it always struck me as an archetypal chicago corner bar--it's been around for like 50 years, everyone there is super friendly, they have an old hamm's sign ("from the land of sky blue waters"), and they have homemade cheese puffs for bar snacks. one of the bartenders would always say hi to me when i saw her around the neighborhood. i never got to any of the queer nights there, though. really sucks to hear about this.

I had not heard of this group or about the incident at Archie's. Corey lives very near there.

which, speaking of: the martini with a splash of st. germain is my favorite discovery of the week, thanks alfred!

My pleasure! Isn't this refreshing? The sourness of the gin complements the St. Germain.

Oh wow, that story about Archie's is terrible. I'm never going there again.

JF is gone, but I'm curled up in his bed with his cat reading a book.

My bf Phillip is watching Myrrha for me while I'm in FL for the week. She apparently slept cuddled next to him - something she never does with me. ;_;

He is chewing on a blanket, which according to Google is calling smurgling? Why are there words for very particular cat behaviours. I don't understand.

xp Aw. Maybe she just misses your presence and needs more comfort than usual?

actually it's probably the fact that she sleeps by the radiator at home, and his place doesn't have one