"I'll never have a boyfriend," may not be the best statement, because it is a prophecy. But nobody likes to talk about the reality that some people who want a mate will not get one. Instead they say well-intentioned but meaningless things like "the right one will come along when you least expect it" and "you will be loved." That's what everyone wants to believe, but those platitudes are dismissive a person's awareness of the realistic possibility that he may well never have a mate.
― Sandbox Jesse, Monday, 19 December 2011 03:37 (twelve years ago) link
hello
― tanuki, Monday, 19 December 2011 03:41 (twelve years ago) link
^ corey btw
― tanuki, Monday, 19 December 2011 03:43 (twelve years ago) link
hi!
http://static02.mediaite.com/geekosystem/power-grid/images/profiles/292/tanuki-suit_x270.jpg
― silvana mangano, Monday, 19 December 2011 03:49 (twelve years ago) link
:D
― tanuki, Monday, 19 December 2011 03:57 (twelve years ago) link
"I'll never have a boyfriend" isn't as accurate in my case as "I'll never want a boyfriend" is.
― Detrius of Life (Eric H.), Monday, 19 December 2011 03:59 (twelve years ago) link
speaking of self-fulfilling prophecies, i just disabled my OKC account
― silvana mangano, Monday, 19 December 2011 04:31 (twelve years ago) link
congratulation!
― surm, Monday, 19 December 2011 04:43 (twelve years ago) link
I've been "seeing someone" since about late summer and it's going very nicely.
― tanuki, Monday, 19 December 2011 04:48 (twelve years ago) link
hah i deleted it because i hate dating, not because i've found someone
― silvana mangano, Monday, 19 December 2011 04:48 (twelve years ago) link
a little from columns a and b tbh
― tanuki, Monday, 19 December 2011 04:52 (twelve years ago) link
xp i kno but quitting still deserves a c-grats
― surm, Monday, 19 December 2011 05:40 (twelve years ago) link
i have an active okcupid account but i haven't looked at it in months
― furnace mane, Monday, 19 December 2011 07:16 (twelve years ago) link
:-) <- me irl
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 15:14 (twelve years ago) link
http://www.ufodigest.com/news/0108/images/debunkers.jpg
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 15:16 (twelve years ago) link
sleepovers on weeknights & shit
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 15:37 (twelve years ago) link
You've restored my faith in OKCupid, by the way (I have an ass-ignation tomorrow night).
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 15:51 (twelve years ago) link
the idea of okcupid/guardian soulmates still repels me tbh. i've never done it. i have no idea what i'd put on my profile.
― degas-dirty monet (lex pretend), Monday, 19 December 2011 15:56 (twelve years ago) link
been doing it since Clinton was president
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 15:59 (twelve years ago) link
okcupid is cool cuz answering questions is more important/telling than what you put in your profile, and it does do a decent enough job of narrowing down ppl that you might be interested in
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:00 (twelve years ago) link
at least in terms of personality, looks is obv up in the air
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, December 19, 2011 9:51 AM (8 minutes ago) Bookmark
dope
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:01 (twelve years ago) link
stopped doing it when Clinton was president. xxxp
(sportfucking ads are different, of course)
― Dr Morbius, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:02 (twelve years ago) link
irrepressible j0y of j0rdan is positively infectious. either that, or it is snowing today and it is my last of exams.
― lexferenda, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:02 (twelve years ago) link
maybe both.
i'm pretty geeked
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:04 (twelve years ago) link
It's a good week! Friends are returning to town one by one, went to a spectacular tapas place on Saturday night followed by drinks at a new tavern; spent last night wrapping presents and writing.
And it's my second to last work day.
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:05 (twelve years ago) link
alfred which tapas place
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:06 (twelve years ago) link
It opened in Wynwood a couple months ago? It's called Wynwood Kitchen & Bar, a location recently reclaimed from vagrants and crack vials by local artists. Wood, the tavern across from it, has a fantastic patio area.
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:10 (twelve years ago) link
cool
― v-shasty, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:14 (twelve years ago) link
From Saturday night, feeling frisky with a friend:
http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f308/sotoalf/photo-1.jpg
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 16:19 (twelve years ago) link
i would definitely have the mussels & clams if i went there.
i had sea bass for xmas lunch on saturday and got to make the inevitable "i got that super bass" joke
― degas-dirty monet (lex pretend), Monday, 19 December 2011 16:19 (twelve years ago) link
and tonight i go to my 6th party in 3 days and then i get to sleep!
― degas-dirty monet (lex pretend), Monday, 19 December 2011 16:20 (twelve years ago) link
seems alfred has good taste in friends
― nuhnuhnuh, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:04 (twelve years ago) link
I'm the Douglas Sirk of friendship.
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:05 (twelve years ago) link
does that mean all of your friends dress in glorious technicolor
― nuhnuhnuh, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:08 (twelve years ago) link
and their adult children buy them color TVs to keep them away from the gardener.
― Dr Morbius, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:11 (twelve years ago) link
In a few decades scholars will wonder why despite the hysterical over-arrangement of sets and furniture Jane Wyman was still wan as fuck.
― Lord Sotosyn, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:14 (twelve years ago) link
tree trimmer xp
― nuhnuhnuh, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:15 (twelve years ago) link
i'm excited about going back home to see family and friends but i definitely don't like xmas as much as i used to
― silvana mangano, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:16 (twelve years ago) link
my bf despises xmas, i can only manage a dazed "whatever."
valley inversions set in last week. it will basically look and feel like mordor here until february. the smog is so bad i have a perpetual headache. of course, ten minutes up the canyon and it's clear, sunny and ten degrees warmer. kicking myself for not saving up for a season pass at one of the ski resorts this year.
― nuhnuhnuh, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:24 (twelve years ago) link
I love Christmas being over
― Dr Morbius, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
"a dazed 'whatever'" = me today, to a t
― silvana mangano, Monday, 19 December 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
hey gayz, dr3w says hi, but he won't be tempted by the sandbox.
& mart1n said he's read my posts! I apologized.
― Dr Morbius, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 06:43 (twelve years ago) link
hi
― surm, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 07:22 (twelve years ago) link
i admire dr3w's willpower
― silvana mangano, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 07:33 (twelve years ago) link
so i have a boyfriend now
i'm wearing his deodorant right now so i smell just like him, it's kinda nice
― v-shasty, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 15:08 (twelve years ago) link
tryna take things slow, but damn
― v-shasty, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 15:09 (twelve years ago) link
maybe you'll smile more now in your monthly self-pic, sweetie. :)
― Dr Morbius, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 15:19 (twelve years ago) link
i probably will!
― v-shasty, Tuesday, 20 December 2011 15:25 (twelve years ago) link