WS 2012 Sandbox: ws in the sand

It is possible to use that language solely as a gender identifier, without malice or negativity.

Maybe, yeah, but in this case there's no commonly used male equivalent to "lady doctor" or "female musician". If only one gender needs the identifier (because it's assumed to be an exception from the norm), then there's inherent prejudice in choosing to use those terms instead of just "doctor" or "musician".

It might be possible for you to use it that way, milo, but it's not possible for some people to hear it that way, and in the case of things that have a history of being derogatory or limiting, the burden falls on the speaker to be clear if possible, or at least to accept someone else's objections reasonably graciously.

Milo, it is this idea that I have some moral ~obligation~ to go on at length and explain an argument for which I have already drawn out my basic position and told you a place where you can find 30 years of discussion on that very thing that you brought up, if you're interested in learning even more about it.

Instead of me, like, spending my entire afternoon having this conversation for the 8 millionth time - when really I should be finishing up my reports and preparing for a trip to Cornwall in like 10 hours time that I haven't even started packing for!

And that's not even mentioning how you demand my time and my attention and my discussion at length - then it's not you, but *me* that gets all the snide zings and the eye-rolling from people who reduce me to "omg that person who goes on about womens studies all the time!" and complain about the length of the discussion.

But, you know, you can claim the moral high ground about how I surrendered the argument because I chose to go and pack for Cornwall instead of talking to you. The last word! You can have it! All yours. Enjoy.

Also and this is the same point as an essay I read last week about rape jokes: that when you use words that you think it's time to de-nuance or "reclaim" even though you're not the recipient of them, or whatever, you can't help if some of your listeners HAVEN'T thought about it as much as you have, and you may be reinforcing their belief that the terms or ideas you're using are acceptable on their face.

Pyth, please shout at me, if you catch me on this thread again, instead of packing for Cornwall. The reports are now done and I'm going home. I'm sure I've forgotten something important.

Shit. Wrong thread.

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remember when she made hilarious movies? I miss those days

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With some pics it is hard to say whether you want to smash the person or just the picture.

xp that actually made me cheer

Christ, you guys really know how to fuck up a ws thread, jesus... way to go people, way to go...

Wish we had 77 back ~ at least people knew what a ws thread was meant for there. Bloody nora.

i'm pretty sure that if you go to tumblr.com/search and mash your keyboard for long enough u will get the unadulterated stream of ppl that ppl with avatar ponytail connections to the internet want to pork that you are looking for

some of you must walk sideways from the constant butthurt

maybe their assholes are large enough so that it doesn't hurt as much?

Rachel Sterne, Chief Digital Officer for NYC

― Mr Jimmy Mod, Tuesday, December 13, 2011 11:28 AM (3 days ago) Bookmark Permalink

lol a while a go i googled to find out if she really was as hot as she appeared in her twitter pic

http://www.outofaces.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/Isla-Fisher-7.jpg

She's in the new Gatsby movie, apparently, which is only a shame becuz yeah the funniez but I guess that Shopping movie kinda killed her funny girl status.

Also that pushup bra ad is awesome trolling

Who she?

isla fisher, who might as well be a piece of sexy 'disney's tangled' fanart in that cool retro-styled pinup girl pic

The "cool retro-styled pinup girl" look works tbh

she was in the last couple episodes of bored to death s3 btw. which, I dunno, I thought it was funny

she's a babia majora and all but an angora sweater and andy's mom's skin looks good on everyone

mega push-up beha

I guess that Shopping movie kinda killed her funny girl status.

― Mr Jimmy Mod, Friday, December 16, 2011 4:33 PM (1 hour ago) Bookmark Permalink

she is amazing in this movie btw. Worth watching just for her performance.

this is good to know

hey guys i just skipped all of this thread to see wussherface from home&away and to set my bookmark. did i miss anything or was it just that twice a year ws thread chatter that is life-draining and never really gets anywhere about nothing really?

people could probably learn a few things from that chatter tbh

there's no commonly used male equivalent to "lady doctor" or "female musician".

I don't know about that, you have male nurse, or male childminder for example. Like the female equivalent they're necessarily meant in a demeaning way, but culture often gets in the way of them being neutral terms.

Anyway, shouldn't really be in a WS thread, my lady spouse (do you see?) will not be pleased, but whoever Ari Graynor is, I would most certainly consider WS with anyone elses, and blonde hair isn't usually my thing.

whoever Ari Graynor is, I would most certainly consider WS with anyone elses, and blonde hair isn't usually my thing.

I've seen a couple of her movies and at the time didn't rate her above "general hot person", but on closer inspection she's got this Monica Vitti thing with her eyes that's just WOW.

Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg:

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looks like:

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there's no commonly used male equivalent to "lady doctor" or "female musician".

I don't know about that, you have male nurse, or male childminder for example. Like the female equivalent they're necessarily meant in a demeaning way, but culture often gets in the way of them being neutral terms.

No, what I meant is that there is no commonly used prefix for a male doctor or male musician, because those professions are thought to be male by default, hence you can just say "doctor" or "musician". "Male nurse" is an example of the same thing, when a profession is considered female by default.

The use of "lady doctor" has faded considerably, now that women are not only going to med school in greater numbers, but are often choosing to serve in the less glamorous roles of family medicine and pediatrics, so they are often one's main doctor. As for "female musician", I have never encountered it. Not once. And I don't seem to be a carrier for the idea that musicians are male by default. Composers and conductors, otoh...

"Male nurse" is still going strong, although they are less of a rarity now.

i have yet to encounter "lady doctor" within the field of medicine

Anyone run into "lady strawman" yet?

i think i heard 'lady doctor' once iirc

http://www.primaryignition.com/wp-content/uploads/ron-burgundy.jpg

Yeah, I've never ever heard Lady Doctor. Wtf.

hay dr. lady

so we have two datapoints; Ron Burgundy and Jerry Lewis

What about Lady Writers?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xNWPNPQxpl8

hey, i'ts mark knoplfer. is that your submission for Male Vagina?

No headband, no cred, no M.V.

sexy lady doctor

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god that weisz gif

monitoring-beat-of-her-heart, you say

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Is she biting a cuticle?