sandbox GAYS

we're about due for a tabes post, no?

if it's a poetic ode to kissing, yes.

i think if we're not doing everything and anything on the first date he might not want to talk to us

now there's the yuletide spirit!

*hopes TITT has a good first-date fisting story up his... sleeve* har har

or something to do w/ sounding & cherry phosphate

Wait who are v shasty and nuhuhuh? Jordan and someone else?

Jordan

yes

matt p

my cat is friendly and confident

like, very

i think i'm gonna have a boyfriend really soon, you guys

HUZZAH!

(But seriously, that's really awesome. Yay for j and Stevie)

And yay for surm's confident friendly cat.

my boy's cat is lounging on a chair and staring at me, but he's normally very friendly.

I'm going to be taking care of him for a week when JF goes home for Christmas.

As of last night/today, it's been a year since JF and I first went out for drinks/hooked up/started dating/whatever the proper thing marking the start of a relationship is.

The problem with starting a relationship in the middle of exams is that planning things for your anniversary are impeded by exams, but we went out for a nice dinner in between studying. Heh.

god damn, alex, an entire year! that's awesome.

If I had a glass I'd raise it to you both.

how'd it go last night?

it went well! we had a nice dinner, then went back to his place for a bit (nothing major went down) then went out w/ his friends where we more or less petted each other under the table, and then instead of going back to his place i went home cuz it was quarter to 12 and i haven't slept much this week and was basically falling asleep

i'm trying not to get really excited but i am, so oh well

^^^ I cannot imagine a better denouement.

it's funny, alfred, that the timeline of this romance was accelerated by you not being able to make it up here

I'll throw rice if you offer an open bar.

aww

possibly i will meet a future bf at the screening of 'l.a. plays itself' (the porn one) i'm going to tonight

(or a future something-else)

xp there's a porn one?

the documentary is 'los angeles plays itself.' the gay porn from 1972 is 'l.a. plays itself' (andersen expounds on this in the doc, if you haven't seen it yet)

I don't remember the porn one ever playing in NY, at least post-Andersen

life is weird and wonderful

do tell!

ah idk

i really like a boy, and he really likes me -- we spent all day basically just kissing each other

aw! :)

I got to tell someone I was wearing my boyfriend's shirt today n_n

"that's nice, sir, but i'm still gonna need to see some photo ID if you're going to deposit these checks"

jordy gettin play!!!!

stevie gettin a bf!!!!

how do they grow up so fast

:-)

i'm pretty sure that i also have a boyfriend

The word will sound very strange for a few days.

i think i'm gonna have a boyfriend really soon, you guys

― v-shasty, Friday, December 16, 2011 6:55 AM (2 days ago) Bookmark Permalink

i think i'll probably never have a boyfriend ever, you guys :(

You and me both. The 10 year mark made it apparent and real for me.

But happy for Stevie and Jordy.

And lol @ "that's nice, sir, but i'm still gonna need to see some photo ID if you're going to deposit these checks"

not only am i the president of the perpetual bachelors' society, i'm also a client

i think i'll probably never have a boyfriend ever, you guys :(

out o' those chains, those chains that bind youuuuuuu

gotta be careful with those self fulfilling prophecies

"I'll never have a boyfriend," may not be the best statement, because it is a prophecy. But nobody likes to talk about the reality that some people who want a mate will not get one. Instead they say well-intentioned but meaningless things like "the right one will come along when you least expect it" and "you will be loved." That's what everyone wants to believe, but those platitudes are dismissive a person's awareness of the realistic possibility that he may well never have a mate.

hello

^ corey btw

hi!

http://static02.mediaite.com/geekosystem/power-grid/images/profiles/292/tanuki-suit_x270.jpg

:D

"I'll never have a boyfriend" isn't as accurate in my case as "I'll never want a boyfriend" is.