i'm going on a (second) date tonight
*nervous.gif*
― v-shasty, Thursday, 15 December 2011 16:44 (twelve years ago) link
how was the first?
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 15 December 2011 16:48 (twelve years ago) link
really good! an easy 2.5 hours at the bar, we hugged as we departed and we've been talking on text/gchat since then.
― v-shasty, Thursday, 15 December 2011 16:52 (twelve years ago) link
aw that is about the most PG date story ever related in the gay threads :)
― degas-dirty monet (lex pretend), Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:09 (twelve years ago) link
ha, well i'm trying to "go slow" with this one. i mean there's a good chance that we have sex tonight, but two dates seems like enough time.
― v-shasty, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:19 (twelve years ago) link
I just never posted all my dates that consisted of having a cherry phosphate at the St Louis World's Fair in 1904.
― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:26 (twelve years ago) link
loool
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:28 (twelve years ago) link
"cherry phosphate" sounds like poppers
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
Depends how you define sex (and I'm not trying to get TMI). In the last three years if there isn't some groping by the first date I can pretty much say goodbye to my chances on the second or third.
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:33 (twelve years ago) link
oh i don't mean like full on penetrative sex (which i'm not really into anyway?) -- but i think anything between that and making out is potentially on the table, but we'll see!
i mean before the first date i made a rule to myself that i was just gonna leave it at that
― v-shasty, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:37 (twelve years ago) link
kissing is the best, and requires the least cleanup.
(semi-j/k)
― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:42 (twelve years ago) link
we're about due for a tabes post, no?
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:43 (twelve years ago) link
if it's a poetic ode to kissing, yes.
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:45 (twelve years ago) link
i think if we're not doing everything and anything on the first date he might not want to talk to us
― degas-dirty monet (lex pretend), Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:46 (twelve years ago) link
now there's the yuletide spirit!
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:47 (twelve years ago) link
*hopes TITT has a good first-date fisting story up his... sleeve* har har
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:50 (twelve years ago) link
or something to do w/ sounding & cherry phosphate
― Dr Morbius, Thursday, 15 December 2011 17:51 (twelve years ago) link
Wait who are v shasty and nuhuhuh? Jordan and someone else?
― Stevie :-D, Thursday, 15 December 2011 18:37 (twelve years ago) link
Jordan
yes
― v-shasty, Thursday, 15 December 2011 18:49 (twelve years ago) link
matt p
― nuhnuhnuh, Thursday, 15 December 2011 18:51 (twelve years ago) link
my cat is friendly and confident
― surm, Friday, 16 December 2011 00:40 (twelve years ago) link
like, very
― surm, Friday, 16 December 2011 00:51 (twelve years ago) link
i think i'm gonna have a boyfriend really soon, you guys
― v-shasty, Friday, 16 December 2011 14:55 (twelve years ago) link
HUZZAH!
― lexferenda, Friday, 16 December 2011 15:10 (twelve years ago) link
(But seriously, that's really awesome. Yay for j and Stevie)
And yay for surm's confident friendly cat.
my boy's cat is lounging on a chair and staring at me, but he's normally very friendly.
I'm going to be taking care of him for a week when JF goes home for Christmas.
― lexferenda, Friday, 16 December 2011 15:11 (twelve years ago) link
As of last night/today, it's been a year since JF and I first went out for drinks/hooked up/started dating/whatever the proper thing marking the start of a relationship is.
The problem with starting a relationship in the middle of exams is that planning things for your anniversary are impeded by exams, but we went out for a nice dinner in between studying. Heh.
― lexferenda, Friday, 16 December 2011 15:20 (twelve years ago) link
god damn, alex, an entire year! that's awesome.
― v-shasty, Friday, 16 December 2011 15:22 (twelve years ago) link
If I had a glass I'd raise it to you both.
how'd it go last night?
― Lord Sotosyn, Friday, 16 December 2011 15:32 (twelve years ago) link
it went well! we had a nice dinner, then went back to his place for a bit (nothing major went down) then went out w/ his friends where we more or less petted each other under the table, and then instead of going back to his place i went home cuz it was quarter to 12 and i haven't slept much this week and was basically falling asleep
i'm trying not to get really excited but i am, so oh well
― v-shasty, Friday, 16 December 2011 16:07 (twelve years ago) link
^^^ I cannot imagine a better denouement.
― Lord Sotosyn, Friday, 16 December 2011 16:13 (twelve years ago) link
it's funny, alfred, that the timeline of this romance was accelerated by you not being able to make it up here
― v-shasty, Friday, 16 December 2011 16:30 (twelve years ago) link
I'll throw rice if you offer an open bar.
― Lord Sotosyn, Friday, 16 December 2011 16:34 (twelve years ago) link
aww
― nuhnuhnuh, Friday, 16 December 2011 19:22 (twelve years ago) link
possibly i will meet a future bf at the screening of 'l.a. plays itself' (the porn one) i'm going to tonight
― silvana mangano, Friday, 16 December 2011 19:55 (twelve years ago) link
(or a future something-else)
― silvana mangano, Friday, 16 December 2011 19:57 (twelve years ago) link
xp there's a porn one?
― Stevie :-D, Friday, 16 December 2011 21:55 (twelve years ago) link
the documentary is 'los angeles plays itself.' the gay porn from 1972 is 'l.a. plays itself' (andersen expounds on this in the doc, if you haven't seen it yet)
― silvana mangano, Friday, 16 December 2011 22:10 (twelve years ago) link
I don't remember the porn one ever playing in NY, at least post-Andersen
― Dr Morbius, Saturday, 17 December 2011 03:21 (twelve years ago) link
life is weird and wonderful
― v-shasty, Sunday, 18 December 2011 06:37 (twelve years ago) link
do tell!
― silvana mangano, Sunday, 18 December 2011 07:31 (twelve years ago) link
ah idk
i really like a boy, and he really likes me -- we spent all day basically just kissing each other
― v-shasty, Sunday, 18 December 2011 07:44 (twelve years ago) link
aw! :)
― silvana mangano, Sunday, 18 December 2011 08:21 (twelve years ago) link
I got to tell someone I was wearing my boyfriend's shirt today n_n
― Stevie :-D, Sunday, 18 December 2011 20:10 (twelve years ago) link
"that's nice, sir, but i'm still gonna need to see some photo ID if you're going to deposit these checks"
― silvana mangano, Sunday, 18 December 2011 20:42 (twelve years ago) link
jordy gettin play!!!!
― surm, Sunday, 18 December 2011 22:00 (twelve years ago) link
stevie gettin a bf!!!!
― surm, Sunday, 18 December 2011 22:01 (twelve years ago) link
how do they grow up so fast
:-)
― v-shasty, Sunday, 18 December 2011 22:43 (twelve years ago) link
i'm pretty sure that i also have a boyfriend
The word will sound very strange for a few days.
― Lord Sotosyn, Sunday, 18 December 2011 22:55 (twelve years ago) link