sandbox GAYS

*crosses self*

I can't sing, but if I could I wouldn't try it while drunk, for drunks.

i'm still not 100% convinced this is true, but if it turns out that way, i officially have no more use for the castro:

http://mpetrelis.blogspot.com/2011/12/castro-theatre-live-acts-replacing-all.html

the horror! Wish I had seen Duck Soup in July.

btwn this and the Eagle, I have much less use for San Francisco.

i saw 'the rules of the game' there. about as perfect a filmgoing experience as one could have. this really blows.

PS tabes I saw this piece at an AIDS art show and immediately thought of you and what you'd make of it

http://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/a78af26c.jpg
http://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/472fc7d4.jpg

Awesome art, awful "poem."

Yeah pretty much. That poem is... embarrassing.

*conspires*

Ginsberg has inspired more drivel than Merrill could ever hope for.

I could only skim over it at work, so I want to ask, is it pro-barebacking?

It reminded me of the BB manifesto by the guy who runs Tr3@sur3 I5l@nd M3d!@.

i guess if your eyes magically changed it to a bb manifesto it would?

last night i particpated in some c2c action with a gentleman named paul

i sure did. nice chap.

Congrats!

I just noticed the last part about...keep co-mingling or something. Maybe it was a Rorschach thing.

xp

i'm sympathetic to the general "thrust" of that "art" "piece" but it's pretty dumb imo. xp

What is c2c?

cheek 2 cheek?

it is "cam2cam"

i know, how terrible

c 2 shining c

can u eve

was hoping for cat2cat

i just know one of these days somebody from my place of work is going to be online

ew cat2cat

killer to killer

i'm still not 100% convinced this is true, but if it turns out that way, i officially have no more use for the castro:

http://mpetrelis.blogspot.com/2011/12/castro-theatre-live-acts-replacing-all.html

my friend that works for SF Film Society says that is false.

yeah, their FB page says it's a false rumor

figured when the OG source was one anonymous "insider"

i had to listen to an ad for mucinex, and it wasn't even true - kinda pissed at petrelis

stevie....uh, yeah, that was kind of embarassing. i like the beginning well enough, but from there....yuk.

congrats on your red furry friend. he sounds rad. will i meet him if we hang out when I'M IN PHILLY FROM THE 13-18??

and in terms of the castro theatre thing, yeah i've heard that's a rumor, too. also, morbz, hole in the wall and powerhouse are still excellent places to go, tho i must admit: th30 and i went to the latter last friday night, and the entire place shimmered with the pale chattering of meth and AIDS, and so we had to leave.

OH... and i know some things about Dimitrov in bed, and let's just say it is soooooo not happening, no matter the circumstances. plus, alfred, you seem to forget that i only have sex with people i like. or find attractive. or people who are intelligent. and he is none of those things.

i know some things about Dimitrov in bed, and let's just say it is soooooo not happening

Can we say more than JUST that, please??

rolling sandbox sex lives of people we hate thread 2011

maybe just a "realm":

predilections
behavior
anatomy
bodily functions
disease

jesse:

- he's a bossy bottom who won't top— this, tbh, is a dealbreaker in my book.

- he's not into even more vanilla bdsm. and at this point in my life, i'm rather into bdsm, so that's a dealbreaker.

- he doesn't like cuddling. even a little puppy slave sub like myself likes to cuddle.

there you have it. all from a friend and former housemate who dated DiDi (as we call him) for a couple months.

bossy bottom

oh please god I hope this is a Sweet Pickles character.

Oh -- who are the Chicago gays? I'll be there Sunday-Wed.

Me me! Where are you staying, what are you doing? Is Corey on here? I don't know who's who for sure right now.

T- that sounds terrible. Not into cuddling is terrible. If he's averse to even lite kink, that's not good either. Not sure what I think about being a bossy bottom. Not sure what bossy might mean, but it sounds bad.

Not kissing or cuddling is the biggest nagl of all time IMO. And I'll be in New Haven most of that week but I should be around the 17th and 18th! Though I work both days (at that natural foods store on 4th two blocks below South; have you been?)

Also can someone please explain to me refusing to top? Like I know that people have reasons for not wanting to bottom (physical discomfort, power dynamics/a threat to one's masculinity, etc) which are sometimes shitty (lol npi) but still make sense, but refusing to top is just bizarre. Does it come down to being so fucking selfish that you refuse to do anything that gets other people off if it doesn't get you off too? Like there's no discomfort in topping; at the very worst it just doesn't do anything for you. ijdgi.

My issue with toppings is that about 50% of the time, using a condom makes me lose my erection. This wasn't the case with a long-term partner, but definitely with newer folks.

But never topping is weird. I've been w/ a couple guys who said they had never topped - it's just - how is that possible?

tomorrow's the feast of the immaculate conception!

you know, ppl like what they like.

Make a Venn diagram of bossy bottoms and power bottoms!

and include it in a poetry anthology!

umm hello? people - refusing to top is not always just bc someone doesn't feel like it. for fuck's sake. sometimes ppl like, can't top. yeah. it's a thing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqp_0B3zq1E

The pronunciation manual videos are my new favorite thing on the whole web right now. This one is one of the best.