POLYGAMY POLL

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I'm not saying it's not the case, because I am no more than passingly familiar with p much everything Sanpaku is talking about, but it is hard to imagine that young men who cannot get married have nothing to lose and will resort to violence. Like the base set of assumptions that prediction requires (men get violent when they don't get what they want/don't have access to sex or romantic relationships?) makes no sense to me.

Seems like there should be roving gangs of murderous gay men if that were the case.

thejenny, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:14 (twelve years ago) link

well it has to be put in the greater social context. most of the time those men are also going to be poor.

iatee, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:16 (twelve years ago) link

well marriage doesn't = sex in 'the west' anymore...

slandblox goole, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:16 (twelve years ago) link

xp Okay "marriage deemed essential to becoming a full member of society" adds some clarity. Thanks. Although then I would say the solution is not polygamy but smashing the patriarchy so ppl don't devalue women to the point of creating a shortage of them.

thejenny, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:17 (twelve years ago) link

there may be roving gangs of murderous gay men in our fascist/mad max future but i doubt it will be a sexless milieu

slandblox goole, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:18 (twelve years ago) link

I realize I just do not have the analytical structures in my brain necessary to think about how we can prove from mitochondrial DNA that we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors

dayo, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:20 (twelve years ago) link

file under 'if a train leaves chicago at 4:45 PM heading towards cleveland at 85 mph and another train leaves cleveland heading towards chicago at 90 mph at 6:00 PM...'

dayo, Monday, 5 December 2011 19:21 (twelve years ago) link

this thread went from sex to word problems way too quickly

recently deposed application inspector for the (league of women voters), Monday, 5 December 2011 19:56 (twelve years ago) link

as sanpaku pointed out upthread: mitochondrial DNA is strictly matrilineal. that is, it has its very own DNA, outside the nucleus, and it only gets passed from mother-to-offspring. similarly, Y-chromosomes only come from dad (whereas X chromosomes can come from either parent).

if you evaluate the genetic variability of Y-chromosomes and mitochondrial DNA, it would seem that mitochondrial DNA exhibits more diversity than Y-chromosomes*. thus, we conclude that more women have been contributing their unique mitochondrial genes to the pool than have men and their unique Y-chromosomes. s

o basically most babies were made by one guy and a lotta chicks

*nb - i am just parroting sanpaku on this. i've never heard this stat, and have neither reason to doubt it, nor to believe it. that being said, it doesn't seem shocking to me at all to learn that back in civilization's small times, ~alpha males~ (or w/e) made more babies (via polygamy, harems, and/or rape). i should also point out that mitochondrial DNA is subject to different selective pressures than Y-chromosomes. that is: if 1000 couples have 1000 babies, 1000 of those babies will inherit their mom's mitochondrial DNA, and only half will inherit their dad's Y-chromosomes. kinda spit-balling here, but one could see how that might result in a diversity of maternal DNA, and a relative narrowing of the uniquely-male contribution. could be rong tho, I Am Not A Geneticist

river wolf, Monday, 5 December 2011 23:32 (twelve years ago) link

Still laffing at "OH GNOES" tbh.

Making like Melusine (Pyth), Monday, 5 December 2011 23:44 (twelve years ago) link

eh legalize it, what do I care

Shakey Mo Collier, Monday, 5 December 2011 23:49 (twelve years ago) link

otm

nuhnuhnuh, Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:03 (twelve years ago) link

for one thing it would piss off the mormons and i am pro anything that does that automatically

nuhnuhnuh, Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:04 (twelve years ago) link

idk I think they would find a way to deal with it.

not uplifting (Abbott), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:29 (twelve years ago) link

They would probably say "sweeeet this means the second coming is around the corner, now all that has to happen is the prophet gets shot in the middle east and that rock on the conference center breaks open, Jesus #1"

not uplifting (Abbott), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:30 (twelve years ago) link

then they would marry one thousand ladies

q: are we not bel biv men? a: we are bel biv devo (m bison), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:31 (twelve years ago) link

and eat jello

q: are we not bel biv men? a: we are bel biv devo (m bison), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:33 (twelve years ago) link

signs o the times

nuhnuhnuh, Tuesday, 6 December 2011 00:35 (twelve years ago) link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mxgq7xEtcTk

CaptainBurlapSax, Tuesday, 6 December 2011 03:37 (twelve years ago) link

Funny, yesterday I googled Polyamory, and every 2guys/1girl scenario starts out a fair description of the pros and cons, personal tales, individual situations, all of them ended up describing "doubel pen", let's call it that...

Bela Lugosi's Derrida (MarkG oo la showaddywaddy), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 11:47 (twelve years ago) link

I kind of think polyandry is cool NOT because I am interested in it, but because it is practiced by magpies. And magpies are probably the best creatures on earth!

not uplifting (Abbott), Tuesday, 6 December 2011 13:42 (twelve years ago) link

Automatic thread bump. This poll is closing tomorrow.

System, Saturday, 10 December 2011 00:01 (twelve years ago) link


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