Stop walking so fast!

Message Bookmarked
Bookmark Removed
Not all messages are displayed: show all messages (61 of them)
clearly i'm not in on the joke, and should be ridiculed immediately.

teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 15:59 (seventeen years ago) link

a thread started purely out of snark

rofl, i didn't know it was

Ste (fuzzy), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:00 (seventeen years ago) link

The joke is that Mark H started a bunch of noodly threads about stuff he was idly reminisching about, and others decided to get in on the act to make fun of him, and presumably of those of us who joined in. But we have joined in here too, and so are probably ridiculous also.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:02 (seventeen years ago) link

o my sides

teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:04 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't care if it's ridiculous. I'm bored at work, and these threads are entertaining.

Besides, it IS odd that you will say hello to complete strangers in the country, but not in the city. Why is that?

in the case of masonic attack (kate), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:04 (seventeen years ago) link

because if you said hello to everyone you passed in the city you would never get to where you were going.

emsk ( emsk ), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:05 (seventeen years ago) link

dammit, the reason (well, one of the reasons) i love the city is i can walk down any street, even the one i live on, and not see one person i recognise who recognises me. i hated that about growing up in a village, HATED IT HATED IT HATED IT. everyone knew who you were, who your friends were, who your mum and dad were, what had happened in your street last week, and as a result thought that gave them the right to stop you and interrogate you about it. FUCK OFF. JUST. FUCK. OFF.

emsk ( emsk ), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:07 (seventeen years ago) link

o my sides

I can get you a needle for them, and the thread's right here!

(That's my Dad joke.)

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:07 (seventeen years ago) link

Because there are like 12 million people (I think?) in the city, the likelihood of knowing any of them or running into them again recognizably is quite small (apart from weird coincidences!), and their sheer numbers are sensorily overwhelming.

In the country a passer-by is probably someone you know, or that someone you know knows, or who will be at the cafe or post office or etc the next time you go through, and so social accountability is much greater. Also I think there must simply be some human element to recognize each other as part of the human community when your backdrop and surroundings are all Nature, Red in Tooth and Cliff-face, but that whole "shared humanity" thing has probably been codified over time, by practice, into a sort of bluff "hello" in passing.

There! I love a little baseless speculation in the morning.

Laurel (Laurel), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:09 (seventeen years ago) link

I remember going down to Clare one time and a guy went past in his car and waved at us. My first thought was "is he taking the piss because we're from Dublin?" but then I realised he just waved at people.

It's great moving to a small village as an adult, though, because you can tell people as much or as little about yourself as you like. And if everyone else there has moved from the city as well, they won't give a shit anyway.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:11 (seventeen years ago) link

so how often do you city folk bump into your friends on the city streets?

Ste (fuzzy), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:18 (seventeen years ago) link

I get pedestrian rage if a gaggle of people ahead of me are just ambling along a city street, I'm like "hurry up, move, fuck off, die!". Cos in the city I'm wanting to get from a->b asap and resent anything that brakes my momentum.
If I was in the country I'd just be like "ahh, going for a nice stroll tum-te-tum, no rush".

DavidM (DavidM), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:19 (seventeen years ago) link

so how often do you city folk bump into your friends on the city streets?

It depends where I am. If I am in the ILX Nexus of Holborn, quite frequently. Ditto if I'm around the intersection of Graham Road and the main bit of Hackney, just because I know so many people who live around there.

in the case of masonic attack (kate), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:21 (seventeen years ago) link

Is this Gareth starting all these parody threads?

unfished business (Scourage), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:21 (seventeen years ago) link

so how often do you city folk bump into your friends on the city streets?

I often do, but then I lived in Dublin, went to college there, worked there, and so on and so on, so I've built up several groups of people to avoid in one small city.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:22 (seventeen years ago) link

LOL Trish. So very true!

kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:24 (seventeen years ago) link

i run into people on the city streets quite often, though less so in winter. hell, even as a visitor to big cities i run into people, even ilxors! e.g., jw on the streets of nyc! and once marianna on the streets of london!

i walked fast this morning to catch up to my friend who was meeting me at the gym - it's weird b/c our paths have never crossed before even though we've had this routine for months - which also is amazing b/c it's always a matter of just a minute or two whether you'll run into someone or not. the world. pretty awesome.

impermanent rrrobyn (rrrobyn), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:40 (seventeen years ago) link

ammit, the reason (well, one of the reasons) i love the city is i can walk down any street, even the one i live on, and not see one person i recognise who recognises me. i hated that about growing up in a village, HATED IT HATED IT HATED IT. everyone knew who you were, who your friends were, who your mum and dad were, what had happened in your street last week, and as a result thought that gave them the right to stop you and interrogate you about it. FUCK OFF. JUST. FUCK. OFF.

EMSK RIGHTEOUSLY OTM

lexpretend (lexpretend), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:45 (seventeen years ago) link

Hahah. Small towns are exactly the same in the US but no one walks anywhere, so they most they can do is wave at you from the car, or maybe ask "How ya doin'?" out the window in passing. SAVED.

Laurel (Laurel), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 16:49 (seventeen years ago) link

Wandering into town at random on a Saturday and knowing I'll run into someone I know is one of the things I miss SO BADLY about Dublin.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:06 (seventeen years ago) link

But then I suppose you choose where you live in a city, much less in a village.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:09 (seventeen years ago) link

Whatever like.

kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:14 (seventeen years ago) link

I thought this thread was started by Mark H, but he had anonymoused himself because he was embarrassed about starting yet another thread. But I do like Mark H threads!

Madchen (Madchen), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:35 (seventeen years ago) link

I ran really fast for a bus, but it was the wrong one!

0.7 (526), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:37 (seventeen years ago) link

Wandering into town at random on a Saturday and knowing I'll run into someone I know is one of the things I miss SO BADLY about Dublin.

this happens to me in london!!!

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:37 (seventeen years ago) link

I run into people all th etime. I don't know who they are though.

DavidM (DavidM), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:46 (seventeen years ago) link

SLOWER TRAFFIC TO THE RIGHT!

The worst thing is a gang of were-three-toed-sloths in human form walking eight abreast at a rate of approximately 2 klicks per decade blocking the whole sidewalk.

a bulldog fed a cookie shaped like a kitten (austin), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:54 (seventeen years ago) link

i dunno, i think i would enjoy running into 8 breasts whilst walking through a street full of people.

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 20 February 2007 17:56 (seventeen years ago) link


You must be logged in to post. Please either login here, or if you are not registered, you may register here.