I think I might add Confidence Building to my seminar/workshop repertoire
Why are you nervous Mr Farmer?
― La Lechera, former application inspector for the (league of women voters), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:46 (twelve years ago) link
Frogs is possibly a (hardly) shocking retrograde and (per the the thread designation) end up wooing the women he deserves.
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:51 (twelve years ago) link
He's married. If that is, in fact, him.
― ~curious orange~, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:52 (twelve years ago) link
not convinced that frogbs is frogbs tbph
― daramaracas.jpg (p much resigned to deems), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:54 (twelve years ago) link
Well, he's done his wooing then...
xpost
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:55 (twelve years ago) link
xp - I was more certain earlier. I have a back-up in mind if it turns out not to be frogs.
― ~curious orange~, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:56 (twelve years ago) link
Hey Pyth, what're you doing Saturday? ;)
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:58 (twelve years ago) link
http://farm4.staticflickr.com/3289/2968815250_37ce96cb59_b.jpg
― the deli llama, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 21:59 (twelve years ago) link
helLOO where can i find a Real Man?
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:00 (twelve years ago) link
Jon Arbuckle what a limp penis!
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:01 (twelve years ago) link
Painting woodwork and seeing a married friend, in fact!
I thought about saying yes to the daet tonight but you know, it was giving me the anxiety and meant rearranging my schedule and just, no. I shouldn't start out by agreeing to things that make me unhappy, even if it makes me uncomfortable to define that boundary.
― Making like Melusine (Pyth), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:03 (twelve years ago) link
Why are you nervous Mr Farmer?I live in a fishbowl college town and my last dating experience was a disaster. Also, I have very strong feelings for someone who lives 1000 miles away, who I've seen twice in the last eleven months, and I don't have the resources to increase that number. But I can't let go! Sorry, I'm listening to George Michael right now.
― Mr. Farmer, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:03 (twelve years ago) link
guilty feet have got no rhythm
― the deli llama, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:04 (twelve years ago) link
George Michael!
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:06 (twelve years ago) link
this thread has turned into a shining example of how men are socialized to think they are right all the time and talk over the people, amirite?
:)
― bene_gesserit, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:07 (twelve years ago) link
no man is ever "Right" enough for me!
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:11 (twelve years ago) link
I just nuked a kind of hilarous 600 word post on the grounds that somebody might get mad at me. i'm not even good at arguing about gender - i fail at man 101
― remy bean in exile, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:13 (twelve years ago) link
Lame Melusine reference, sorry
I shouldn't start out by agreeing to things that make me unhappy
Don't be a coward but don't waste anybody's time, either. If you're vaguely interested but not for tonight, don't go; you wouldn't be doing either of you a favor.
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:18 (twelve years ago) link
Or how you should own your own desires and state them, preferably politely, tho
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:19 (twelve years ago) link
http://leemasaur.files.wordpress.com/2011/05/hedonismbot.jpg
― remy bean in exile, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:21 (twelve years ago) link
Mr Farmer, do you know what you're looking for?
Companionship? Fucking? An escape fantasy from a 1K distant torch? Someone to dine with? What?
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:22 (twelve years ago) link
i fail at man 101
Luckily we're all mortals
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:23 (twelve years ago) link
need 2get laid, pls, thx
― bene_gesserit, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:23 (twelve years ago) link
Lookin for a love that's right for meI don't know how long it's gonna be
― Mr. Farmer, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:38 (twelve years ago) link
How's that pu line working for you?
"I say! You wouldn't be interested in a good shag would you, by any chance? Just thought I'd ask."
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:47 (twelve years ago) link
Lookin for a love that's right for meI don't know how long it's gonna beaw i just listened to this song like 1 hr ago
I have lived in a fishbowl college town too, and it sounds like you're healing by hiding out with Ms 1000miles away. Maybe you don't really want to meet anyone right now.
― La Lechera, former application inspector for the (league of women voters), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:51 (twelve years ago) link
don't look now, there's a monkey on yr back
http://www.jamesfinngarner.com/images/blogimages/monkey-centerfold.jpg
― remy bean in exile, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 22:58 (twelve years ago) link
mmm
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:16 (twelve years ago) link
Have you seen macaque? It's quite sexy.
― M. White, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:19 (twelve years ago) link
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/52/Macaca_nigra_self-portrait.jpg/425px-Macaca_nigra_self-portrait.jpg
my heart... melts!
― Pablo, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:22 (twelve years ago) link
ew, more like http://www.animalcorner.co.uk/wildlife/monkeys/graphics/nwemptam.jpg
― La Lechera, former application inspector for the (league of women voters), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:23 (twelve years ago) link
^movember winner
I have seen a lot of tv programmes in which mothers are all 'did you know {foo} has two children now, when are you going to meet a nice boy/girl and settle down' but I have never met a person who's said their mother says that.
agreeing w/ ppl who say nah this totally happens, and that Garfield's owner reads like frogbs
― The Larry Sandbox Show (sic), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:26 (twelve years ago) link
I pity the [foo] who has two children now
― The Larry Sandbox Show (sic), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:27 (twelve years ago) link
why do {foo}s fall in love?
― thomasintrouble, Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:51 (twelve years ago) link
forton fears a foo
― Sad Banter (p much resigned to deems), Wednesday, 30 November 2011 23:53 (twelve years ago) link
Lol after reading this thread I'm feeling p good about my sandbox transvestitism*
*real word?
― ruth m4rcus is a mor4n (henrietta lacks), Thursday, 1 December 2011 00:31 (twelve years ago) link
Jesus McKinnon Christ
LOL
― tokyo rosemary, Thursday, 1 December 2011 00:36 (twelve years ago) link
i am ready to date a stranger just to see how that works
― forksclovetofu, Thursday, 1 December 2011 05:17 (twelve years ago) link
guys okcupid looks really stupid do i really have to do this
― forksclovetofu, Thursday, 1 December 2011 06:00 (twelve years ago) link
make it a gay date. at the last minute.
― Louis C.K. Williams (jaymc), Thursday, 1 December 2011 06:44 (twelve years ago) link
i haven't worn my ring for a week and the groove in my finger is still there, i'm sort of enjoying watching it fade and wondering how long it'll take
― Julie Lagger, Thursday, 1 December 2011 11:34 (twelve years ago) link
.....
― Sad Banter (p much resigned to deems), Thursday, 1 December 2011 13:38 (twelve years ago) link
i dunno i feel guilty for trotting out sad minutiae of sadness but i don't have anybody on hand to bore with this on a daily basis plus it's easier to type it out into a half-void than sit and chew somebody's ear off irl, am doing chirpy blitz spirit there
have been pondering the future possibility of going on a date ever a date...now there's a properly bleak train of thought :-)
― Julie Lagger, Thursday, 1 December 2011 13:42 (twelve years ago) link
ever again i meant
― Julie Lagger, Thursday, 1 December 2011 13:43 (twelve years ago) link
nah it's just hard to know what to say. I'm sorry man.
― Sad Banter (p much resigned to deems), Thursday, 1 December 2011 13:54 (twelve years ago) link
thx. i think sometimes i just like to think stuff out loud, doesn't have to have a response, doesn't not have to, egotistical fucker that i am. ilx = 10-bob counsellor or something.
a part of me likes starting from first principles, so that's something. am mostly very "what the fuck do i do now?" tho
― Julie Lagger, Thursday, 1 December 2011 13:58 (twelve years ago) link
blue sandboxday thread imo
― Sad Banter (p much resigned to deems), Thursday, 1 December 2011 14:03 (twelve years ago) link
am toying with it but am busy sorting out my new house and then i think i want blue saterday to be a different thing
― Julie Lagger, Thursday, 1 December 2011 14:33 (twelve years ago) link
you think you have housing troubles, son? i had to remove a crazy cat lady this morning....
― Sad Banter (p much resigned to deems), Thursday, 1 December 2011 14:36 (twelve years ago) link