harbl encouragement thread

yay!! you should make an appointment to look inside!

i should but i don't know if it would be a serious inquiry. i am working harder now on not spending money so i can save! i didn't go grocery shopping yet because i am using up things i have. except i went to the chinese store yesterday, but i only spent $15 and got things i will use. i was going to go on a walk to see it again but

it's raining

dear harbl,

i just ate the strawberry-banana yogurt you left behind, and at lunchtime i will eat the last of the leftover pasta you made.

<3<3<3
lxy

the listing for the tiny house has been removed
:(

oh crap.

i wanted that "valuable exterior mural"!!!

harbl, i encourage you to have a happy birthday!!

oh happy harblday!!

love & miss

Happiest of days to you, harbl!

thx :D

happy birthday harbly<3

jk the house is back but now it costs $10k more. who cares not like i can buy it anyway.

BUY IT ANYWAY

haha lxy!
hi everyone. i am trying to take some time off from the internet and do more reading and exercise and cleaning my house. it's not working great but at least i'm trying. like sometimes i get distracted and read max's posts on gawker! i have a procrastination problem. just saying hi! i guess i can check in on the sandbox more often and it wouldn't hurt. i miss all of u.

― spite n ease (harbl), Monday, June 27, 2011 7:06 AM (5 months ago) Bookmark Permalink

*single tear rolls down cheek*

feel like i let u down by not posting to sandbox

a single rolling tear is always very convincing.

i had no idea i could have been encouraging harbl on the sandbox all this time!

the sandbox is the true secret borad of ilx

^^^

hey this is a pretty long, encouraging thread

encouraging you is one of life's pleasures.

now that i know i encourage you just by doing my job i dont feel like i need to post here

http://www.nastyhobbit.org/data/media/4/fatty-pew-pew-pew.gif

I hope that harbl is always encouraged

i am supposed to ahve my 1st jury trial tomorrow and i am not sure how to do it

stay up all night watching a law and order marathon?!

Seriously wishing you poise and confidence and equanimity under pressure.

awesome, good luq

do it harblously.

think of the jury as a row of fruit flies, your argument as the vinegar in the jarbl. it'll be a snap!

how'd it go

i was wrong, the client was v lucky and got a judge who is a stickler for starting at a certain time and the state put its witness on call and she was late so they made us an offer we couldn't refuse and there was no trial

that is what's known as a plea jarbl

well done, harbly<3

that stickler judge would not like me at all.

the subject of the trial was going to be telephone misuse lol

harbl, do you know this man?

haha not personally. it is seriously the shittiest worst most suburban dull ugly boring county. except a bunch of other counties in maryland.

like i was surprised by it but it helped make sense of other things that go on there

harbl do you find the usa/md system of government/justice more or less depressing than you used to?

ie tell me everything's okay?

hard to remember how i used to feel about it but it comes and goes in waves. sometimes i'm like what the fuuuuuuuck this is bullshit and other days i'm like ok. mostly i am just mad at it and the people who believe in it. there is a lot of false helping. people who believe that what they're doing is helping someone. for example probation with mandatory drug treatment or anger management (and if you fail probation getting more jail time than you would if probation didn't exist, so you get punished additionally rather than for the original offense) or the crap prosecutors put domestic violence victims through. also SO many people who think making drugs a crime is doing anything for anyone. i could go on!

everything is ok

i like losing an hour of my life because i hate my life!

stop!

but i'm tired and i drink a lot of wine

i have a motions hearing tomorrow and i know i'm going to lose it (boss said he cannot remember ever winning a single one of this type of motion and he is 50 but the point is not to win it anyway) but i have no idea how it is even done so i am just guessing! i am stressing myself out. i am tired of doing misdemeanors and i want to be able to move up when the opportunity arises so i am putting extra pressure on myself to do a good job. people know that i am smart and i care, i think, but i am not technically skillful.

i think you will do a great job!

we, and zipper, have faith in u

oh harbl. i would encourge you but you have so much courage already so i don't think you need it. instead i wish you confidence.

lxy otm

i didn't die

hurray

excellent news!

congratulations!

we come to encourage harbl, not to bury her.