Books a Man Has Given Me That Made Me Swear NEVER to Go on Another Date with Him EVER Again

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It's possible that it says something about both your worldviews.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:05 (seventeen years ago) link

That's because you mainly date women; women read more fiction, men more non-fiction. I have to tear myself away from whatever weighty tome I happen to be reading to enter the frivolities of fiction.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:06 (seventeen years ago) link

Belay that - I read almost exclusively fiction.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:09 (seventeen years ago) link

I have nothing against fiction, I just feel I don't have the time to delve into it, because it takes more concentration and effort. You can read comics or non-fiction books while riding the bus and listening to music.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:10 (seventeen years ago) link

OK, novels is a red herring. Even "1 to 5 BOOKS, fullstop" would be a lot for some of the people I've known.

masonic boom (kate), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:14 (seventeen years ago) link

I used to read lots, average a book a week, then for some unknown reason I just stopped for ages. I just haven't been able to get back into the habit of reading books. I just read the free papers to and from work. I think the only books I've read so far this year have been about music, so they don't really count. I've been carrying around Slaughterhouse 5 by Kurt Vonnegut in my coat pocket for 2 months and only read half of it.

I think the only books that could actually put me off someone if they were given to me would be extreme right-wing politics. I don't think I would dump someone just because they had different taste in fiction.

Colonel Poo (Colonel Poo), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Extreme right-wing politics? Oh, my brother used to give me those, too. Ha! And I'm not talking your Ann Coulter crap, I'm talking the philosopical ones that actually *meant it*.

masonic boom (kate), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:18 (seventeen years ago) link

Richard Kaplan type stuff? I have one of his at home, for research purposes. But stuff I won't hate keeps getting higher priority.

Cycling has kind of killed my bookreading - it should in theory get me home in time to get an hours reading in at the evening, but it never seems to work like that.

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 12:22 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm amused at how Kate is having to defend a position here that is simply a fact, and that fact is that a lot of people do not read books.

For example, many of the people in Mister Monkey's office do not read books or appear to engage in much culture beyond the internet and computer games in any way at all. And even, Andrew, a lot of the people we both know from the Place You Used to Work are not readers. As an example, I offer you the case of our friend C, who now runs his own company. He only reads books like "How to Maximize your Money" or else textbooks. My old friend Stephen C is the same. It's just how things are.


accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 13:25 (seventeen years ago) link

There's more to life than the internet, I know, but not much more.

Is this our friend C who's now worked in two jobs with Mister Monkey? I didn't know he has his own company, but I'm not surprised. He's got a missus who does all the reading, no?

Andrew Farrell (afarrell), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 13:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Jesse, who gave you Stranger in a Strange Land?

Framed black and white photos of two hobo children kissing made me think of this:

http://ec3.images-amazon.com/images/P/0740735403.01._BO2,204,203

It's not so much that I would dislike someone who liked this book as I would dislike someone who was so dim as to have ever spoken one word to me and yet still somehow think that I would like this book.

Handgun O. Mendocino (pullapartgirl), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 14:08 (seventeen years ago) link

BOOOOO. I meant:

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1559120177.01._AA240_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

Handgun O. Mendocino (pullapartgirl), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 14:09 (seventeen years ago) link

I would dislike someone who gave me any Ayn Rand, though.

Handgun O. Mendocino (pullapartgirl), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 14:10 (seventeen years ago) link

Is this our friend C who's now worked in two jobs with Mister Monkey?

That is the very chap.

Anne Geddes wants kicking.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 14:11 (seventeen years ago) link


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