Do you have a stalker?

BOOO!

it's sweet that you ended up marrying the guy.

Same here! Annoying phone calls, a constant stream of sad bastard mix tapes, etc.

I got accused of *being* a stalker once. By this ex of mine who would invite me over to his place, and then sit there and play GTA and refuse to talk to me, leaving me sitting there awkwardly til I gave up and went home.

Apparantly having done that once or twice is stalking. Feh.

There are some scary stats about stalking.

Knife Guy was the most psycho I think. But the Northfield Stalker was pretty bad - he got irritated that I left my ad up (this was the olden days) after I had met him. And, he knew where I was working (i r stoopid), and that I was on a night shift. He was waiting in the dark parking lot twice, until I turned screaming laser-beam-eyed harpie, armed with a phillips screwdriver and a clawhammer.

Um, thats not a stalker story I guess, but man that guy messed me around.

I didn't know how to handle it. It didn't seem too creepy, and was actually a little flattered. She said that she used to have a crush on me, but was too shy to actually get my attention.

Also, the girls from those grades were amazing because at the beginning of a new school year they'd know the names of all the boys in that class, even BEFORE some of us knew each other's names. They would also usually know who dated who as soon as it happened. I never quite figured out how they did it, but god knows that place was weird, you were always constantly under the scrutiny of dozens of girls aged 12-14.

This is probably true. Some guy who follows you around and posts pictures of dinosaurs (old ILX example) after every time you post is not a Stalker - someone who turns up at your house or workplace unannounced, who threatens violence to you or loved ones (or threatens suicide), that is what I call a Stalker.

Though having been through the latter can make you a fuck of a lot less likely to view the former as funny or cute.

in my case i present you the following proof:

hacking into my email inbox as reading what i would be doing (or had done). then proceeding to come and reprimand for lying when i said i didn't go out anymore. "you did this and that."

no :(

(I am so so sorry, to the rest of ILX, someone was going to have to post that picture and it might as well be me.)

Annoying phones calls then weird letters then creepy notes under my windshield wipers then lots of hang up phone calls then parked outside my house overnight then a rock with a scary note through my bedroom window.
― luna (luna), Wednesday, February 14, 2007 10:03 PM

he was mad that she always stood him up

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