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If I reject someone's friend request, do they get a mail from Myspace saying "HA! Loser! You have been rejected!" or do they just think I never accepted them?
Some cabaret musician wants to be my friend, and I don't like cabaret music.

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:17 (nineteen years ago)

every time i get spamy band frndrqsts i send them a message saying "WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU? FRIEND OR SPAMBAND?"
I've not had a reply to date. I'm guessing SPAMBAND.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:22 (nineteen years ago)

why not ignore it and leave it in your request box?

― nathalie (stevienixed), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:23 (nineteen years ago)

This is more fun.

After I posted that, I went to check my mailbox and someone HAD replied. They said I sound like a bitch, and said they'd like to fuck me like one.

I guess I won't be adding them.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:27 (nineteen years ago)

Unless I get the sudden urge to be gangbanged by german electrogimps.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:31 (nineteen years ago)

Sounds like the average tuesday around here. Wednesdays it's the art rockers...

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:42 (nineteen years ago)

Haha, they even went to the trouble of reading through my whole profile and pulling out the parts that they thought made me sound THE MOST like a bitch, and quoted them in the message. Like, as PROOF that I am indeed a complete bitch.

Amazing.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:45 (nineteen years ago)

Wow. At least they made an effort. Make them your friends!

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:46 (nineteen years ago)

That would undermine my anti-spamband stance somewhat.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:48 (nineteen years ago)

It's not really spam any more! How many exchanges have you had with spammers? These are real people, with feelings!

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:49 (nineteen years ago)

but they hurted MY feelings.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:50 (nineteen years ago)

Fair enough, I still stand by the point that it's not spam!

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 09:51 (nineteen years ago)

Well, why don't YOU be their friend?

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:03 (nineteen years ago)

They never asked me ;_;

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:08 (nineteen years ago)

lol

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:11 (nineteen years ago)

Now you hurted MY feelings. That is PROOF that you are indeed a complete bitch.

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:12 (nineteen years ago)

As if it were ever needed.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:12 (nineteen years ago)

i finally managed to change the look of my myspace page. hurrah!

― nathalie (stevienixed), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 10:55 (nineteen years ago)

be my new club night's friend! www.myspace.com/thizzfacelondon

― lexpretend (lexpretend), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:10 (nineteen years ago)

'proto-electro'? like thomas dolby and shit?

― temporary enrique (temporary enrique), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:14 (nineteen years ago)

hi nrq!

― lexpretend (lexpretend), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:24 (nineteen years ago)

Kev, the Kit, this is all fascinating stuff, don't get me wrong. But it does not answer my question.

why not ignore it and leave it in your request box?

Because then it just sits there in my way forever. Plus, once, one of my brother's "friends" asked me to add him, and his avatar sat there in my request box, dancing away like a little cunt. Eventually I was forced to reject him.

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:25 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think it sends a message when you are rejected. I've never got a rejection note and I've been rejected by people - usually friends who didn't realise that it was *my* MySpace and not some lame band trying to schmooze them.

― masonic boom (kate), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:29 (nineteen years ago)

Hooray. I shall cut a swathe through them, then. Get away, stupid Swedish cabaret women!

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:31 (nineteen years ago)

lex is there a venue for thizzface yet?

― resumo impetus (blueski), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:36 (nineteen years ago)

we've only just started emailing venues

― lexpretend (lexpretend), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:37 (nineteen years ago)

I can't answer question bcuz I am fortunate enough to have never been rejected for myspace friendship.

so, where is bnrq myspaec?

btw sandbolloxers, i am at http://www.myspace.com/teh_kit so you can all add me and then send me messages about how you're gonna fuck me like the bitch I so clearly am. and accentmonkeh, maybe I can REJECT you in the name of science?

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:39 (nineteen years ago)

fuck me, i got a big stream of errors when i posted that link

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:40 (nineteen years ago)

how you're gonna fuck me like the bitch

teh_kit is one of those ladies in their undies sending me invites? Oh noes!

Don't reject the accentmonkey! She's alright really...

(xpost)

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:41 (nineteen years ago)

NAEM OF SCIENCE

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:42 (nineteen years ago)

Odd name for a webcam...

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:42 (nineteen years ago)

NAEM OF SCIENCE

Sure, that's what they all say...

Okay, do. I'd be curious to see what happens. Also I'd be curious to see if you can then decide to unreject someone, or if they stay rejected forever.

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:44 (nineteen years ago)

i think i might have two (inactive) myspace accounts. i can't remember the first one.

― temporary enrique (temporary enrique), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:47 (nineteen years ago)

permanent rejection would make me feel really guilty

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:50 (nineteen years ago)

ok, you have been officially REJECTED. i feel awful already :(

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 11:51 (nineteen years ago)

I sent you teh friend request, gkit.

― Norman Phay (Pashmina), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 12:00 (nineteen years ago)

prepare to be rejected!

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 12:02 (nineteen years ago)

I would post Myspace but fear teh rejection. That and I never check the thing so would probably end up causing offence!

― kv_nol (kv_nol), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 12:09 (nineteen years ago)

prepare to be rejected!

-- teh_kit (kittenslikemilk@hotm

wai 2b teh bithc, teh kit?

― Norman Phay (Pashmina), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 12:27 (nineteen years ago)

purely 4 teh lolz :(

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:06 (nineteen years ago)

:) xoxox

― Norman Phay (Pashmina), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:10 (nineteen years ago)

silly spammy german band sent me another message, completely BLANK.
OH HEAVENS, they're really hassling me now! I flagged it as spam. Next step: report abuse. Who knew myspace could be FUN??

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:13 (nineteen years ago)

I'd appreciate some invites even from german electro freaks I've only got 6 friends.

― ned trifle XIV (ned trifle XIV), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:29 (nineteen years ago)

Hint.
http://www.myspace.com/nedtrifle

― ned trifle XIV (ned trifle XIV), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:30 (nineteen years ago)

I'll be sure to pass it on to them!

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 13:33 (nineteen years ago)

ok, you have been officially REJECTED. i feel awful already :(

It's fine, no really, it's all okay. I just have something in my eye here...

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:03 (nineteen years ago)

So, did you get a NOTICE OF REJECTION, or not?

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:09 (nineteen years ago)

What do you care?

Er, no I didn't. So now I can reject with impunity. If that's the correct use of that word.

Thanks, teh_kit.

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:12 (nineteen years ago)

Trish, did teh_kit disappear out of your Pending Friend Requests list? That's something I've wondered about.

― Nu-Edward III (edward iii), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:41 (nineteen years ago)

I never checked. I didn't know I had one. I don't mind that so much though, it's only the thought of people getting an actual message to tell them they've been rejected that I was worried about.

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:43 (nineteen years ago)

plz 2 send me another, so we can 4 realz be friends?

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:49 (nineteen years ago)

Would you, in the interest of science, take a look? If you go to your Inbox, in the list of links there's one called "Pending Requests".

― Nu-Edward III (edward iii), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:57 (nineteen years ago)

Yes, they fall off your pending requests when you are rejected.

― masonic boom (kate), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 14:57 (nineteen years ago)

D4 P41N!!!1

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 15:10 (nineteen years ago)

So wait, what happened now? A band got irritated with Kit because they sucked? Fuck 'em.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 15:18 (nineteen years ago)

Yep, friend pend gone.

I will now send teh Kit another request, in the hopes that Myspace doesn't say "you've been told once".

― accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 15:20 (nineteen years ago)

Ned has given me words to live by. If anyone gets irritated with me, it's simply because they suck. Awesome.

― teh_kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 15:25 (nineteen years ago)

It's a fantastic philosophy shared by sociopaths everywhere.

― Nu-Edward III (edward iii), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 17:47 (nineteen years ago)

Not that Ned is a sociopath.

― Nu-Edward III (edward iii), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 17:48 (nineteen years ago)

Thanks all - now I have 9 friends! I rool.

― ned trifle XIV (ned trifle XIV), Tuesday, 13 February 2007 20:13 (nineteen years ago)

The girls of p0rn are back in a big way - TEN friend requests in less than two hours, when I magically haven't had any* in weeks.

*any friend requests from girls of p0rn, that is

This guy I hung/hanged out with last night, lamenting on former band members turned screamo dudes: "he's actually a hell of a drummer, but all he does nowadays is post pictures of his fucking sidebangs all over cryspace". CRYSPACE!

― nklshs (nklshs), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 18:27 (nineteen years ago)

Not that Ned is a sociopath.

*whistles idly*

CRYSPACE!

That's beautiful.

― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 14 February 2007 18:28 (nineteen years ago)

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