sandbox GAYS

Browsing at a head shop can turn awkward when you realize you're browsing the crack/meth pipes.

The boy is sending me pictures from isolated rural etc. of abandoned houses in the snow that he discovered while snowshoeing and so forth.

I don't want to be with him because I miss him (well, that too) but because it looks SO FUCKIN COOL

I need to get lube again soon. What did y'all get? Elmo recommended Maximus which I love, and Gun Oil's great too but potentially stainy. I also hear wondrous things about JO but their H2O formula is terrrrrrible.

My ex confessed to me that in a cruising hookup, he and the other guy used Dr Pepper bc that was the only liquid they had available.

i got one (1) small bottle of JO silicon based

will report back

I haven't gotten a new tube in a while; I don't usually go that far.

we aren't using it for anal -- at least not yet (?)

at least not yet (?)

I think you'll know if you're using it for anal.

Should I just cave and buy silicone lube even though it stains? I mean also there's something lovely about being able to flop down after a nice fucking and fall asleep without having to go shower bcz everything just dries away.

The best lube I've ever used was sweet almond oil during a bit of frot and ohhh myyy goooodddd

I mean it was more than just a bit tbh

i forgot you don't have that other thread anymore

we need the real board back so bad.

Good morning. Hoping everyone made it through the nice well lubricated.

I was planning to have my share of casual sex this week (ie, some) but my postcold lingers, and echoey rumbling coughs just aren't a good come-on.

bf's parents are visiting — IOW no sex until they leave (tomorrow or the next day)

watching videos of young dwight yoakam looking really like table around the face i think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7eQD6Gq3mA

loooooove Dwight Yoakam. No musician's gotten away with writing great songs about assholedom as long as he has.

Co-signed

so somehow i missed the DY boat---where do i start

He's never made a great album. Buenas Noches From a Lonely Room has a killer first side and spotty second one. If There Was a Way comes closest but it's too long. This Time has all the huge radio hits, most of which are melodic and lyrical wonders but rather wooden in the rhythm dept ("A Thousand Miles From Nowhere," "Ain't That Lonely Yet").

but, really, you can't go wrong with one of his comps or one of the first five records (all cheap and easy to find).

Love this one:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uft3DD3GkIw

this is my favourite yoakam song, yoakam is p indebted to buck owens in general and he says this song is specifically influenced by "tiger by the tail" the way it stops and starts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IYjP65XV74

also his little outfits

saw him at Folk City in a snowstorm circa 1985, about 5 ppl in the joint

(and then later opening for Husker Du)

thx dudes

I like the idea of turning the sandbox gay thread into a Yoakam one.

i don't love it

Dwight Yoakam?

anyway, i'm just saying that i only use Sliquid H20, because i hate everything about silicone lube. everything.

also, hey yall.

dwight yoakam

Dwight Fuckin' Yoakam.

dwight goddamn yoakam

goddamn

stevie d you have an attractive housemate. i saw on facebook.

wait what's wrong with silicone lube

He's an artist too; I was thinking abt how much you'd likely fancy him. We're very friendly and I'm worried it might lead to some level of tension...

i would probably move out

But I just moved in! And he's like my new Philly gay bestie!

i said I would. it would be silly for you to.

this wasn't so much advice as daydreaming.

You should at least go in for a nice shirts-off make-out before you leave.

But he keeps mentioning over and over how he won't date people that are shorter or significantly younger than him, sorta the way closet cases keep mentioning over and over how they're straight.

oh is he tall?

Like 5'10" give or take

lol looks like i'm out of luck

after living with someone for six months the sexual urge seems to dwindle (at least ime)

but I've seen aforementioned roomie and he is pretty (and likes cats!)

Have you been living w your man?

I've said it before, but the best sex I ever had was in LTRs. In the first one, even after 4 years, evenings and days off were unmitigated priapism time. Like skin-abrading f-fests.

I've been sleeping over his house almost every night but not really living w him per se. And truth be told I have little desire to have sex with anyone else atm so roomie is rly nbd. Just glad I didn't move in like 6 months ago.

same here — I get enough sex elsewhere that I don't feel the need to bone my roommates (which would just be weird)