i lost a trial this week but i feel ok about it because there were so many problems with it and i still almost won. i volunteered to do a new high-profile case why bc she look intersting. i'm TIRED. how does it go away
― spite n ease (harbl), Friday, 13 October 2017 23:03 (six years ago) link
artist, writers, lovers of privacy. harbl's real estate fantasieshttps://www.zillow.com/homedetails/471-Walnut-St-Church-Hill-MD-21623/82159349_zpid/
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 21 October 2017 23:16 (six years ago) link
harbl's favorite weather is here and she is going to work in a wool shirt and boots like a farmer
― spite n ease (harbl), Sunday, 12 November 2017 14:54 (six years ago) link
same
― mookieproof, Tuesday, 14 November 2017 03:29 (six years ago) link
farmer high five
― spite n ease (harbl), Wednesday, 15 November 2017 00:21 (six years ago) link
i'm going to take hunting "classes" next fall btw
i was supposed to begin a 2 week murder trial tomorrow but we got some new info on friday so i believe we will get a postponement and i am very excited to sleep a lot and go to the gym and maybe clean my house and make cookies. also best september weather in years. it's usually too hot. encouraged, for once.
― spite n ease (harbl), Sunday, September 10, 2017 9:34 AM (five months ago)
time to face the music w/ this thing. i want it to be over.
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 3 March 2018 13:52 (six years ago) link
No such thing as a plea bargain on work life balance grounds NB IANAL
― esperantzen (p much resigned to deems), Saturday, 3 March 2018 19:03 (six years ago) link
i would love for that to happen but nope
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 3 March 2018 22:49 (six years ago) link
best encouragement to you
― estela, Sunday, 11 March 2018 21:09 (six years ago) link
i found a dress for you
https://www.redbubble.com/people/tomsredbubble/works/15941962-maryland-america-flag-of-maryland-maryland-flag-pure-and-simple-usa-on-black?cat_context=women-clothes&grid_pos=245&p=graphic-t-shirt-dress&rbs=d87fdd1a-3622-47ea-b42a-a3a98d781547&ref=shop_grid
― lxy, Thursday, 22 March 2018 19:02 (six years ago) link
oh yes i love to wear dresses.......NOT
― spite n ease (harbl), Friday, 23 March 2018 00:27 (six years ago) link
it's still not over. maybe wednesday. i'm trying to force myself not to work today but it's hard.
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 24 March 2018 14:10 (six years ago) link
i finished it maybe i can resume having an abnormal but not extremely abnormal work-life balance
― spite n ease (harbl), Friday, 30 March 2018 00:42 (six years ago) link
i did something really brave today and i just want to say i'm proud of myself
― spite n ease (harbl), Wednesday, 23 May 2018 23:22 (six years ago) link
i am proud of you, too. you are wonderful.
― lxy, Friday, 25 May 2018 15:45 (six years ago) link
i got this in my head and i can't get it out:
"working harb or harbly working"
― lxy, Friday, 12 October 2018 16:46 (five years ago) link
hey lxy i haven't made lentils in forever but you reminded me i like them and i got some berbere from the ethiopian store and i am dead. real ethiopian lentils. i am sorry but they were better than lxy lentils.
― spite n ease (harbl), Monday, 29 October 2018 00:13 (five years ago) link
errr
― lxy, Monday, 29 October 2018 18:03 (five years ago) link
this is a fraught situation for any harbl encourager who is also a lxy lentil believer
― estela, Tuesday, 30 October 2018 00:26 (five years ago) link
harbs no
― jergins, Tuesday, 30 October 2018 02:45 (five years ago) link
(enjoyably fraught)
― estela, Tuesday, 30 October 2018 06:01 (five years ago) link
lxy lentils were really good though
― spite n ease (harbl), Friday, 2 November 2018 00:45 (five years ago) link
all lentils are bad
there, i've solved the fraughtness
― mookieproof, Saturday, 3 November 2018 04:00 (five years ago) link
Clearly you have not had my mujaddara.
― toadstool might (tehresa), Monday, 5 November 2018 13:32 (five years ago) link
leave my muja out of this
― esperantzen (p much resigned to deems), Thursday, 15 November 2018 23:47 (five years ago) link
made more lentils yesterday
― spite n ease (harbl), Tuesday, 20 November 2018 00:03 (five years ago) link
i made split pea soup last weekend
― lxy, Tuesday, 20 November 2018 16:49 (five years ago) link
am going to make lentil loaf for TG dinner
how was this loaf
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 1 December 2018 01:14 (five years ago) link
i'm applying for not one but two, maybe three jobs this weekend
congrats dude
― mookieproof, Thursday, 24 January 2019 22:59 (five years ago) link
"
― lxy, Friday, 25 January 2019 01:23 (five years ago) link
thanks, bros! i'm really excited. a new lease on life.
― spite n ease (harbl), Friday, 25 January 2019 12:10 (five years ago) link
tomorrow is my last day at my old job
― spite n ease (harbl), Thursday, 14 March 2019 23:46 (five years ago) link
congratulations, harbl!! are they taking you out for leaving drinks?
― lxy, Friday, 15 March 2019 14:58 (five years ago) link
yes, i didn't want to but you can't really not do that. it was ok. i'm going to the office today to clean up and move things out. it is mostly done already.
― spite n ease (harbl), Saturday, 16 March 2019 14:11 (five years ago) link
harbly, i hope you like your new job.
i feel like i can never leave my job because i've worked here for so long they'd never let me get away without some big do and it seems utterly excruciating. but on the other hand refusing a do would be scandalous? i don't know, this is the type of nonsense that worries me on a regular basis. "fortunately," i have a good number of years left to decide which approach i'll take.
― lxy, Tuesday, 2 April 2019 15:19 (five years ago) link
you can totally refuse a do imo!
― esperantzen (p much resigned to deems), Tuesday, 2 April 2019 22:59 (five years ago) link
(would it then be a dont he wondered)
thank you for your encouragement, a leaving don't it is!
― lxy, Wednesday, 3 April 2019 18:42 (five years ago) link
presumably you then *should* let the door hit you on the way out, idk
― esperantzen (p much resigned to deems), Wednesday, 3 April 2019 19:29 (five years ago) link
always the big do
― mookieproof, Thursday, 4 April 2019 02:04 (five years ago) link
don't go, buy the w/d
― lxy, Friday, 26 April 2019 00:31 (five years ago) link
congrats harbs
― jergins, Friday, 26 April 2019 03:26 (five years ago) link
not going. already re-budgeted my saved $273.
oh, l&j! the sweater i was starting at your house...i'm still cranking away at it but it's almost done! i may run out of yarn. by like 100 ft. oops!
― spite n ease (harbl), Sunday, 28 April 2019 23:55 (five years ago) link
two great pieces of news!
will you finish with a different yarn? an ongoing reminder of measure twice cut once?
― lxy, Monday, 29 April 2019 15:16 (five years ago) link
well it turns out i may have exactly the right amount. or i will be like 1 ft short and will use my swatch. this is a mass produced kind so i could get more but they come in giant skeins that cost like $20. so i'd have to find a partial one on the internet.
― spite n ease (harbl), Monday, 29 April 2019 22:04 (five years ago) link
please post pix. or come back wearing it.
― lxy, Tuesday, 30 April 2019 15:19 (five years ago) link
i am in fact 2 ft short. working on it.
― spite n ease (harbl), Wednesday, 1 May 2019 21:58 (five years ago) link