Isn't it inconvenient that words have meanings and connotations and you don't get to decide what they are for people that have different experiences from you? How terrible. My condolences for your inconvenience.
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:49 (twelve years ago) link
ck dexter whatever, i'm not a woman but i will say that the abject wrongness of everything you are saying stands clearly and singularly for itself in this thread.
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:50 (twelve years ago) link
Womansplaining
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:51 (twelve years ago) link
Except for when you were agreeing with it.
the joys of a SB FREE ZONE
― nice catch cuauhtemoc blanco niño (dayo), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:52 (twelve years ago) link
i never at any point agreed with anything you said, you must have misunderstood me
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:52 (twelve years ago) link
i have been sarcastic at various points itt
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:53 (twelve years ago) link
mark ruffalo is schlubbishly attractive, discuss pls
― twice banned gabbage is death (p much resigned to deems), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:53 (twelve years ago) link
quiet you
<3
― twice banned gabbage is death (p much resigned to deems), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:54 (twelve years ago) link
George Clooney is still getting better looking. It's ridiculous. I don't even get how it's possible.
Lol.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Monday, December 26, 2011 2:21 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Permalink
such a dreamboat
― judith, Monday, December 26, 2011 2:22 PM (Yesterday) Bookmark Permalink
This was sarcastic?
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:54 (twelve years ago) link
you're gonna have to work real hard on this one
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:56 (twelve years ago) link
You're going to have to explain.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:56 (twelve years ago) link
Dang, he got you, judith.
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:56 (twelve years ago) link
p sure that once you agree that george clooney is attractive then you lose the argu no wait what
― twice banned gabbage is death (p much resigned to deems), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:57 (twelve years ago) link
i am gutted just gutted that only chucklebutt registered the appropriate admiration for my dr banner zing tbph and can't help feeling that all these unrelated new answers have obscured my path to acclaim
― twice banned gabbage is death (p much resigned to deems), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 16:59 (twelve years ago) link
Isn't it inconvenient that words have meanings and connotations and you don't get to decide what they are for people that have different experiences from you?
I see. You are the arbiter of not only the referent and meaning of my words, but my experience. Thank you, womansplainer.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:02 (twelve years ago) link
i was ignoring you. my post has nothing to do with your post. just because you pasted them together. did you also think my previous jpeg of ruffalo was in response to your post just before it? why am i even arguing with you. im p sure all you are saying is "i am not especially attracted to mark ruffalo" which isn't really that much of an insight for you to be posting this much on a thread called "mark ruffalo is attractive"
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:05 (twelve years ago) link
"womansplainer" is really just too much
http://i.imgur.com/p9BTy.gif
― nice catch cuauhtemoc blanco niño (dayo), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:06 (twelve years ago) link
i was ignoring you. my post has nothing to do with your post. just because you pasted them together.
Nice try, but the only person who posted in between your two posts was me, so there was no one for you to be agreeing with other than me or the post I quoted for purposes of agreement. You decided to disagree after my next post, which I guess inappropriately referred to the attractiveness of someone of the female persuasion.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:12 (twelve years ago) link
i've said before that photographs are only a tiny part of the story with ruff which is why his attractiveness varies from role to role, because he is a v physical actor and it is often about how he moves. or rather how his movement often suggests a certain tactility, hes weirdly physically present in a lot of his movies.
There's a great moment in YCCOM when he and Laura L. are on the back porch and he absent-mindedly swats at a fly. I love it.
― jaymc, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:14 (twelve years ago) link
That's right. The way to prove you were using a problematic word in a ~totally non problematic ~ way is by... acting like a total problematic cock. Well done!
Can we have some more jpegs of attractive men, pls?
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:14 (twelve years ago) link
p sure i was still referring to mark ruffalo there. i have no real opinions about george clooney.
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:14 (twelve years ago) link
it was apparent p quickly that i shouldnt bother with you, this is an instinct i wish i had perservered with
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:16 (twelve years ago) link
The way to prove you were using a problematic word in a ~totally non problematic ~ way is by... acting like a total problematic cock.
You may have a problem with it based on what you decided my meaning was, which in turn was based on your deciding that I was a different person referring to different people, but there is nothing "problematic" about any word I used.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:17 (twelve years ago) link
Judith what this calls for is more pictures of The Ruffalo so you can help me make up my mind why he's handsome but not fancyable.
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:17 (twelve years ago) link
thanking this thread
― I am womansplainer hear me roar (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:18 (twelve years ago) link
fwiw I hadn't really thought about it before but the patronizing undertones of "unthreatening" are pretty obvious
― I am womansplainer hear me roar (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:20 (twelve years ago) link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8auSdJSusE
in motion
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:20 (twelve years ago) link
also has this been posted already
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS32GgH7kpmTCWSaH_P0muNwUhHSpIRZU3FmoeUOGRyngxvBIf1h7XfS0N_wA
― I am womansplainer hear me roar (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:21 (twelve years ago) link
he was p fn threatening in in the cut
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2dKDh7zggo
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:22 (twelve years ago) link
http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.354537!/img/httpImage/image.jpg
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:22 (twelve years ago) link
that's MR and his brother, who I just learned died playing Russian Roulette :(
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:23 (twelve years ago) link
Interesting detail in the news story "Scott Ruffalo, a married hairdresser"
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:24 (twelve years ago) link
Like the patronizing tone of this response.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:24 (twelve years ago) link
that doesn't even make any sense
― I am womansplainer hear me roar (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:25 (twelve years ago) link
it looks like everyone's against you huh?
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:25 (twelve years ago) link
jesus dude, please go away
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:26 (twelve years ago) link
maybe you should post photos of yourself so we can see if we think you are threatening or not
― judith, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:27 (twelve years ago) link
Sorry I'm on a train across Exmoor or Dartmoor + my connection keeps cutting out. Want to see these photos but they won't d/l!
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:28 (twelve years ago) link
Neither new or a concern to me. I am with the truth, even if I have to be a little outrageous in expressing it.
― illegal crew member (C.K. Dexter Holland), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
And I am v unthreatening as is well known
In the brother pic Ruffalo is the one on the left? He has v kissable lips.
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:29 (twelve years ago) link
Yes. Scott Ruffalo was really cute. How awful is it that he had a Russian roulette compulsion?!
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:30 (twelve years ago) link
Who is this interrupting idiot? When did Julian Assange join ILX?
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:31 (twelve years ago) link
who I just learned died playing Russian Roulette :(
I dug into this a little more, and the coroner was skeptical that Russian Roulette was to blame.
― jaymc, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:31 (twelve years ago) link
I guess it was time for the ol' William Tell routine.
― Lord Sotosyn, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:31 (twelve years ago) link
Oh, I can see that. I thought it was really odd that he would have shot himself in the back of the head.
― Sandbox Jesse, Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
lemme mansplain it for ya:
he's non-threatening, I guess, while retaining enough macho not to embarrass the opiner
you are making a number of presumptions about what other people find attractive in Ruffalo. At the most basic level you are presuming to speak for them (which is - wait for it - patronizing!), and then you are also presuming that they hold a specific set of aesthetic standards (macho = bad/embarassing, a scale of attraction that is based on fear/weakness, etc.)
xp
― I am womansplainer hear me roar (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link
Ha ha x-post not you Jesse
― Polemicist Who Slashed All, Freely (Fotherington Thomas), Tuesday, 27 December 2011 17:32 (twelve years ago) link