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Philosophy 101 ennit

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 15 December 2011 00:03 (twelve years ago) link

i think kids know that "why" generally gets a bit of conversation from a grown-up (cause we love proving how smart we are); it's like their only small-talk tool so they lean on it for everything. they don't actually want to know "why" they just want to keep the conversation going

am i alone in having a child who asks "why" in the most stereotypically whiney-bored tone imaginable, i.e. "whyyyyYYYYYYY"

his venerable escutcheon, Thursday, 15 December 2011 00:04 (twelve years ago) link

they don't actually want to know "why" they just want to keep the conversation going

agreed, this is definitely what's going on

Shakey Mo Collier, Thursday, 15 December 2011 00:05 (twelve years ago) link

<3 juvenile transparency

estela, Thursday, 15 December 2011 00:11 (twelve years ago) link

re: vaccines

Our 2 year always ran a fever/got a little sick after her initial vaccinations, but that seemed to diminish after each visit. Now she just gets pissed off for about an hour.

Darin, Thursday, 15 December 2011 00:43 (twelve years ago) link

> "daddy, that car is green"
"yep, sure is"
"why?"

― his venerable escutcheon, Wednesday, December 14, 2011 6:57 PM

> "because the person who bought the car has bad taste"

― Shakey Mo Collier, Wednesday, December 14, 2011 6:58 PM

The Real reason I drive a green car:

1) It's the only color the dealer had in stock that was equipped as I wanted (4 doors and a stick shift), and

2) I asked my cute upstairs flatmate Alexis if I should buy the green car they had, or factory-order the gray car I really wanted and have to wait several weeks and pay more. I showed her the brochure with the seven color choices; she jumped up and down and got all excited about the green - "Pick green! It's way the coolest!". So I of course bought the green one, and instead of my car always reminding me of how I keep settling for second best, instead it will forever remind me of a cute girl.

There's a great parenting lesson in here somewhere....

Everything else is secondary, Thursday, 15 December 2011 11:29 (twelve years ago) link

like "a boy will do anything a cute girl wants him to do" - can't be too young to learn that....

Everything else is secondary, Thursday, 15 December 2011 11:33 (twelve years ago) link


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