I haven't followed Vendler for years but her early stewardship of Merrill, Bishop, and O'Hara helped.
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 03:22 (twelve years ago) link
My guy and I had out first Serious Conversation last night, the kind where you let your guard down and open up and talk about life and insecurities whars REALLY going on inside and all of that shit you always try to, like, avoid discussing with other people. This kid is so brilliant; I'm really excited about him and he feels the same way about me. I think we're really on to something good here.
\(^o^)/
― Stevie :-D, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:44 (twelve years ago) link
Congratulations, Stevie!
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:48 (twelve years ago) link
That's really great Stevie! I'm happy for you. What's this guy like?
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:49 (twelve years ago) link
good goin, buddy
― Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:52 (twelve years ago) link
Oh I forgot to mention that all of this came after we went to a bar but decided we were hungry and split after 2 pints, but at 11:30 could only find a 7-Eleven open, so we had a 7-Eleven date with taquitos and maple pancake sausage rollers and cheeseburger big bites and the obligatory cola Slurpee which we consumed standing under the awning next to the trash can to avoid the rain. And this whole Serious Conversation happened walking our bikes in a light drizzle and then sitting on a stoop for like 20 minutes holding hands with his head on my shoulder staring up into the rain. It was absurdly romantic.
What's he like? Graduated from a really good art school, brilliant arist (technically speaking, at least), really dry but affectionate sense of humor
― Stevie :-D, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:56 (twelve years ago) link
V. sweet.
Are you off the vegetarian diet?
Maple pancake rollers are as delicious as they are unappealing.
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 14:59 (twelve years ago) link
Wait I didn't mean to post that yet. He's into feminism and really good at holding intellectually stimulating conversations. He's also not an asshole, which most everyone else seems to be on some level. Like I don't have to worry about him making snide degrading remarks about women/minorities/etc (Its frightening how many people do this!). He's also short and skinny and furry (but it's mostly a fine reddish-blonde) and has a lovely red beard and cute glasses and the thickest hair I've ever seen in my life. I am p much totally completely smitten w this dude
― Stevie :-D, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 15:03 (twelve years ago) link
yes yes that's fine and all but HOW GOOD AT KARAOKE IS HE
jk, that is awesome news, stevie :)
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 15:47 (twelve years ago) link
good at karaoke is still the most counterproductive trait I can think of
― Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 15:52 (twelve years ago) link
If the aversion to Timberlake wasn't already an indication, here's the proof I need that you and I could never date.
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 15:55 (twelve years ago) link
*crosses self*
― Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 16:03 (twelve years ago) link
I can't sing, but if I could I wouldn't try it while drunk, for drunks.
i'm still not 100% convinced this is true, but if it turns out that way, i officially have no more use for the castro:
http://mpetrelis.blogspot.com/2011/12/castro-theatre-live-acts-replacing-all.html
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 16:20 (twelve years ago) link
the horror! Wish I had seen Duck Soup in July.
btwn this and the Eagle, I have much less use for San Francisco.
― Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 16:28 (twelve years ago) link
i saw 'the rules of the game' there. about as perfect a filmgoing experience as one could have. this really blows.
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 16:32 (twelve years ago) link
PS tabes I saw this piece at an AIDS art show and immediately thought of you and what you'd make of it
http://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/a78af26c.jpghttp://i934.photobucket.com/albums/ad184/sdolnack/472fc7d4.jpg
― Stevie :-D, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 17:31 (twelve years ago) link
Awesome art, awful "poem."
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 17:37 (twelve years ago) link
Yeah pretty much. That poem is... embarrassing.
― Stevie :-D, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 18:19 (twelve years ago) link
*conspires*
― nuhnuhnuh, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:06 (twelve years ago) link
Ginsberg has inspired more drivel than Merrill could ever hope for.
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:07 (twelve years ago) link
I could only skim over it at work, so I want to ask, is it pro-barebacking?
It reminded me of the BB manifesto by the guy who runs Tr3@sur3 I5l@nd M3d!@.
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:07 (twelve years ago) link
i guess if your eyes magically changed it to a bb manifesto it would?
― nuhnuhnuh, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:15 (twelve years ago) link
last night i particpated in some c2c action with a gentleman named paul
― surm, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:16 (twelve years ago) link
i sure did. nice chap.
Congrats!
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:16 (twelve years ago) link
I just noticed the last part about...keep co-mingling or something. Maybe it was a Rorschach thing.
xp
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:17 (twelve years ago) link
i'm sympathetic to the general "thrust" of that "art" "piece" but it's pretty dumb imo. xp
― nuhnuhnuh, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:17 (twelve years ago) link
What is c2c?
cheek 2 cheek?
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:17 (twelve years ago) link
it is "cam2cam"
― surm, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:18 (twelve years ago) link
i know, how terrible
c 2 shining c
― Sandbox Jesse, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:18 (twelve years ago) link
can u eve
― surm, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:19 (twelve years ago) link
was hoping for cat2cat
― Dr Morbius, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:19 (twelve years ago) link
i just know one of these days somebody from my place of work is going to be online
ew cat2cat
― surm, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:25 (twelve years ago) link
killer to killer
― Lord Sotosyn, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 19:27 (twelve years ago) link
my friend that works for SF Film Society says that is false.
― sarahel, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 20:10 (twelve years ago) link
yeah, their FB page says it's a false rumor
― silvana mangano, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 20:26 (twelve years ago) link
figured when the OG source was one anonymous "insider"
i had to listen to an ad for mucinex, and it wasn't even true - kinda pissed at petrelis
― sarahel, Wednesday, 7 December 2011 20:27 (twelve years ago) link
stevie....uh, yeah, that was kind of embarassing. i like the beginning well enough, but from there....yuk.
congrats on your red furry friend. he sounds rad. will i meet him if we hang out when I'M IN PHILLY FROM THE 13-18??
― souslatablelaplage, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:33 (twelve years ago) link
and in terms of the castro theatre thing, yeah i've heard that's a rumor, too. also, morbz, hole in the wall and powerhouse are still excellent places to go, tho i must admit: th30 and i went to the latter last friday night, and the entire place shimmered with the pale chattering of meth and AIDS, and so we had to leave.
OH... and i know some things about Dimitrov in bed, and let's just say it is soooooo not happening, no matter the circumstances. plus, alfred, you seem to forget that i only have sex with people i like. or find attractive. or people who are intelligent. and he is none of those things.
― souslatablelaplage, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:36 (twelve years ago) link
i know some things about Dimitrov in bed, and let's just say it is soooooo not happening
Can we say more than JUST that, please??
― Sandbox Jesse, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:48 (twelve years ago) link
rolling sandbox sex lives of people we hate thread 2011
― silvana mangano, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:50 (twelve years ago) link
maybe just a "realm":
predilectionsbehavioranatomybodily functionsdisease
― Sandbox Jesse, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:56 (twelve years ago) link
jesse:
- he's a bossy bottom who won't top— this, tbh, is a dealbreaker in my book.
- he's not into even more vanilla bdsm. and at this point in my life, i'm rather into bdsm, so that's a dealbreaker.
- he doesn't like cuddling. even a little puppy slave sub like myself likes to cuddle.
there you have it. all from a friend and former housemate who dated DiDi (as we call him) for a couple months.
― souslatablelaplage, Thursday, 8 December 2011 02:57 (twelve years ago) link
bossy bottom
oh please god I hope this is a Sweet Pickles character.
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 8 December 2011 03:00 (twelve years ago) link
Oh -- who are the Chicago gays? I'll be there Sunday-Wed.
― Lord Sotosyn, Thursday, 8 December 2011 03:01 (twelve years ago) link