Wine markup in restaurants

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Having never had Nero D'Avola before, I paid $10 for a glass in a nice restaurant (admittedly very tasty) a few weeks ago, not realizing that I could have gotten A WHOLE FUCKING BOTTLE of the exact same wine for $9. I know there's always a big markup, but is this an especially big one? It also made me wonder whether all wines on the list were just as marked-up or whether I ordered the "sucker wine."

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:18 (seventeen years ago) link

Unfortunately that's not t that unusual. 3 times the shop retail price for a bottle is not unusual in a restaurant and buying by the glass can easily add another 50% on top of that. It sucks.

It's worth carrying the prices of a few commonly sold wines to use as a yardstick to see how much you are being fleeced. In the UK, Chateau Musar works well because it is fairly common on winelists and it's easy to find as most restaurants don;t ever carry more than one Lebanese wine. It's £12-16 in the shops so anywhere where it comes in for less than £35 in being sensible with the wine markup.

(PS was the Nero at ambient temperture or chilled, I'm of the opinion that it is a good red wine for chilling)

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:30 (seventeen years ago) link

If I remember right it was slightly chilled.

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:32 (seventeen years ago) link

That may be a sign that it's not a sucker wine (it could also be an accident or they have a cold 'cellar'. The Puglian Reds (Nero D'Avola, Salice Salentino, Negroamaro, etc.) are really just too big to be served at room temperature. They get a lot of sun down there an it's not uncommon for wines to weigh in at 16% ABV as a result.

Lot's of places in the UK have these on as a cheap Italian and it's a bad sign when they come out at ambient temperature. I've never seen them served at ambient temp in Italy. As you can guess I'm quite a fan.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:42 (seventeen years ago) link

Wine seems especially glaring in mark-up, but, um, I don't know. Everything in a restaurant costs a lot more than if you went to the supermarket and got it yourself. That's kinda the point.

Huk-L (Huk-L), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:42 (seventeen years ago) link

The margin on food in nowhere near as high. In a lot of restaurants food covers the costs and wine makes the profits.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:53 (seventeen years ago) link

I fucking hate Manhattan.

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:53 (seventeen years ago) link

xpost Also with food you're actually paying for someone else's preparation of the food in a way you presumably couldn't do yourself.

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Sunday, 24 December 2006 08:54 (seventeen years ago) link

There used to be a fabulous french restaurant in London that very proudly put a flat £10 markup on all wine and kept a really interesting cellar (also lots of interesting Armagnacs and Rums).

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 09:01 (seventeen years ago) link

What's maybe even more appalling is that most restaurants buy their wine below retail even, right?
Coffee mark-up is ridiculous too. I was recently in a pretty spiffy medium-high-end restaurant, and after a fun, pleasant & pricey meal & wine, I had a coffee, as a lot of people are wont to do. I got dinged an extra three bucks for it! And it was just regular ass coffee served in a just slightly below average-sized cup. I didn't bat an eye at the price on everything else, though it was kinda overpriced and not awesome, but $3 for an after dinner coffee seemed excessive and greedy.

Huk-L (Huk-L), Sunday, 24 December 2006 09:08 (seventeen years ago) link

OMG GUYS HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TO A SPORTING EVENT? WTF MILLER LITES FOR SIX DOLLARS, SIX DOLLARS IS SIX BEERS, NOT ONE BEER. I DON'T UNDERSTANG.

TOM. BOT. (trm), Sunday, 24 December 2006 13:56 (seventeen years ago) link

Haha Tom OTM. I don't mind paying over-the-odds for a decent bottle in a restaurant especially if the food is good value.

Now the markup on soft drinks in pubs, that's the real bastard.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Sunday, 24 December 2006 14:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah, but they put spirits in them! FOR FREE!

Huk-L (Huk-L), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:03 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't particularly mind the 200% markup for wine but some restaurants take the piss and go as high as 300% or more and serve badly stored wine at the wrong temperature and still whack a 15% compulsory discretionary service charge on the bill at the end.

200% seems reasnoble for a place that keeps an interesting and diverse cellar and knows how to treat the wine. One big problem is it's often difficult to divine this in advance as most restaurants don't publish their wine lists either outside or on their website.

For smaller establishments with smaller lest varied cellars 150% seems reasnoble.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:16 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed, would you say based on these criteria that St John does a good job?

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:21 (seventeen years ago) link

Now the markup on soft drinks in pubs, that's the real bastard.

Does the UK have the concept of the "designated driver"? US bars often give free soft drinks to a group's DD.

As for restaurants marking up the price of a bottle of wine to 2.5 or 3 times the retail price, to add insult to injury the restaurant probably bought the wine at wholesale rates that are lower than retail.

J. Lutz (j.lu), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:24 (seventeen years ago) link

"There used to be a fabulous french restaurant in London that very proudly put a flat £10 markup on all wine and kept a really interesting cellar"

there is a restaurant in philadelphia famous for doing this. they would never charge more than 10 dollars over retail.

scott seward (121212), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:31 (seventeen years ago) link

No designated driver strategies because at least in cities, the UK's public transport infrastructure puts that of the US to shame. I'm in no position to speak about pubs and bars in more car-reliant areas.

Still, most places charge about $2 for a shitty little glass of Coke which is about the equivalent of half of a can.

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:38 (seventeen years ago) link

St john does a very good job. They also have some wines of real quality at £16 and £18 a price at which most pubs in the area wouldn't even sell you piss. They also do off-sales and put their on and off-sale prices next to each other in the winelist and on the blackboard. Their on-sale prices are around double their off-sale prices and they have a habit of doing really good prices on bin ends.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:39 (seventeen years ago) link

And thus you have the REAL reason artists go there...

Ed, have found gumbo spices. You want?

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:43 (seventeen years ago) link

wine markup is high, but so are lots of other things in restaurants. think about a fountain drink. how much do you think your $1.99 coke cost the restaurant? here's a hint: under a nickel. that's just how the game is. that's what restaurants have to do to make a profit. as my manager says, "you pay for atmosphere."

hm (modestmickey), Sunday, 24 December 2006 15:56 (seventeen years ago) link

thanks for the hint.

baccarat heads spice pushka underdog official texas holdem bundgee (bundgee), Sunday, 24 December 2006 18:54 (seventeen years ago) link

I think corn syrup and water is sold at a pretty steep markup nearly everywhere.

jw (ex machina), Sunday, 24 December 2006 19:00 (seventeen years ago) link

mcdonalds makes ALL their money/profit from soda sales. that's what their business is based on.

scott seward (121212), Sunday, 24 December 2006 19:28 (seventeen years ago) link

A friend of mine got shouted at in a Restaurant for not ordering wine. Apparently it was where this restaurant made most of its money.

caek (caek), Sunday, 24 December 2006 19:34 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed, I would like to thank you for redeeming this thread with a few helpful hints and a couple of new names for me to seek out. Also, completely OTM with the huge number of restaurants who cannot figure out temperatures wine is meant to be served at. The trendier it gets to tout a big wine selection (as much as I love a good tapas joint, I will blame the explosion of tapas restaurants for quite a bit of this mania), the more likely it seems that I am going to get a glass of red wine that is HOT never mind inappropriately ambient. Though honestly ordering by the glass is completely insane in all but very rarified circumstances; the mark-up is (more) ridiculous, they overfill the glasses, it's served at the wrong temperature 98% of the time, and there's an extraordinary chance that not only are you getting from a bottle that's been open for a while, but also a glass that is a mix of remainders from a couple bottles which isn't really a great thing. Especially not for $10-$15. When I am really certain I will only have one drink and then water at a restaurant, I order a pre- or post-dinner cocktail or a beer instead.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Sunday, 24 December 2006 20:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Sadly, even cost is not a signifier that you will be served wine correctly. The decanter is an exceedingly underuse piece of table service and is almost always a worthwhile exercise. I always decant at home. (It's worthwhile, doesn't have to be fancy, use an cleaned milk bottle). Even a big range or a dedicated sommelier doesn't automatically mean that you are going to be served well. I'm not a fan of by the glass either for the reasons you point out. (also I am quite happy to put away a bottle of wine by myself so splitting one is no hardship, when my family dines out, we average a bottle a head)

One thing that disappoints me is that beer does not have the status as a drink to have with meals. One of the pleasures of travelling in Belgium is the range of beer and how acceptable it is to drink beer with an upscale meal. Of course there is a widely available diversity of beers and a culture of the craft of serving them.

Ally, next time you come to London we should eat in St John, even if only in the Bar. It is a worthwhile and rewarding experience.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 20:57 (seventeen years ago) link

I really should start using my decanter more often, at the very least with the reds. It is always worthwhile (and thank YOU for convincing me to get a decanter, actually!), and I need to stop kidding myself that I actually am going to recork and only have one glass. I think the reason, besides not wanting to buy a bunch of decanters, that restaurants do not do this is because certain douchey types like to buy a pricey (not necessarily tasty) libation and then make sure everyone can see their label sitting out on the table, unfortunately :\

I'm trying to think of places where they really push beer with upscale meals and there aren't many that I can think of. There are a few giant beer houses in DC that serve thousands of different types of beer, but the food, while good, is burgers and fries. Some ethnic restaurants will offer a few beers from the country of origin but really they like to push cocktails and wines and sakes (maybe because markup is better? I've never thought much about beer markup in restaurants or bars, because they don't seem unreasonably priced).

I actually almost just went onto Orbitz, btw, to price out a trip to London for this St John. I have thought a bit better of my initial idea to make the trip "next month" :)

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:04 (seventeen years ago) link

It pains me as well because the Pub/Inn tradition calls for beer (or cider), yet we cede our tradition to the Upper Class habits of wine. I do like the recent resurgence in high quality pub cooking because it does mean that good beer can be had with good food, although, too often, pubs doing good food neglect to maintain the same breadth and depth in their beer cellars.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:09 (seventeen years ago) link

St John's almost worth it I'd say - marvellous place, with an added bonus that they actually do counter sales of many of the wines that you buy with a meal. So the Viognier which is (a very reasonable) 17 quid with dinner can be taken away for about 7 (details are actually on site). They do some lovely wines too - for instance a great Irouleguy which I'd never had before and have since sought out while at Biarritz and the pricing is reasonable in the extreme. Unfortunately I think they are a minority. Mind you, Locanda Locatelli, while very expensive, seem to have wines that live up to the price tag (unlike say, a bottle of something white at a bog standard restaurant which will end up being nowt more than some Hardy Brothers taste-a-like.


I have to say though - at certain price points the mark-up on food is just as scandalous as that on booze, but I can't really expand on that what with it being my job etc.....

Ex-post with Ed - too true, it's rare to get a decent beer list at a full-on restaurant... I think SJ just do Adnams iirc

porkpie (porkpie), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:14 (seventeen years ago) link

It just feels worse with wine, all they do is uncork, you feel as if some craft secrets have gone into the food prep.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:17 (seventeen years ago) link

so long as you're spending more than, say, a tenner for a main course. Below that, believe me, there ain't no craft, unless you're in a little indepoendant place or suchlike.

There's nothing like getting a job in the food industry to make you really lose your appetite for eating out.

porkpie (porkpie), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:23 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed, if you are in Washington, remind us to take you to the Brickskellar. That place isn't one I'd go to regularly (too crowded) but good food + a beer "list" that is 20 pages long.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:29 (seventeen years ago) link

I look forward to it (maybe in may)

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 21:31 (seventeen years ago) link

what's the consensus on whether it would be totally gauche to bring good beer to a BYOB joint?

remy bean (bean), Sunday, 24 December 2006 22:11 (seventeen years ago) link

(also most upscalish brazilian and latin places feature an average-to-good beer list, I've found)

remy bean (bean), Sunday, 24 December 2006 22:12 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't see why they would complain. There's definitely no problem in the UK with it.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 22:17 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed, now I know why you always look so happy on those WDYLL threads.

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Sunday, 24 December 2006 23:06 (seventeen years ago) link

I promise you; I was not drunk in the last one.

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 23:09 (seventeen years ago) link

Which (although my jaymc-keeping-up-with-days are long past and I can't remember what picture is being referred to) I believe I can safely interpret to mean that, if pressed, the the other person pictured could provide evidence to the contrary, no?

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Sunday, 24 December 2006 23:44 (seventeen years ago) link

Noone else picture, I'm sure.

OK SRSLY: Waht do u look like in a Sandbox?

Ed (dali), Sunday, 24 December 2006 23:46 (seventeen years ago) link

OK, sorry, I was thinking of that picture of that was recently excelsiored by somebody of you at your dad's wedding, I think. In that picture you look like a friend of mine who looks like Max Van Sydow.

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Sunday, 24 December 2006 23:56 (seventeen years ago) link

I have have never been on one of the circle jerk threads. Do you mean this one:

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/84/251576929_f193a6ffd2.jpg?v=0

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 December 2006 00:04 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm still impressed with that guy's expression at the back of that photo.

Bob Six (Bob Six), Monday, 25 December 2006 00:14 (seventeen years ago) link

OMG GUYS HAVE YOU EVER BEEN TO A SPORTING EVENT? WTF MILLER LITES FOR SIX DOLLARS, SIX DOLLARS IS SIX BEERS, NOT ONE BEER. I DON'T UNDERSTANG.

-- TOM. BOT. (tombo...), December 24th, 2006.

I think my post makes it pretty clear that I'm not saying "Duh, whoa, there's a markup!" but "Is this a normal amount of markup?" Which is a perfectly reasonable question, especially since, sorry, I don't dine regularly in restaurants where the cheapest glass is $10. But I've come to expect that sort of obnoxious, snotty response from both you and Ally. Maybe it's something you've honed and refined together.

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 03:21 (seventeen years ago) link

hurting otm

bliss (blass), Monday, 25 December 2006 03:42 (seventeen years ago) link

No, actually so OFF the money you must never have had a nickel in your pocket to call your own.

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Monday, 25 December 2006 04:27 (seventeen years ago) link

That's clever.

Hurting (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 04:29 (seventeen years ago) link

Thank you!

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Monday, 25 December 2006 04:59 (seventeen years ago) link

http://webpages.csus.edu/~sac46084/Stevie%20Ray%20Vaughan%20cover%202.jpg
"Well I'm so off the money, I never had a nickel in my pocket to call my own."

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 05:28 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed, that was indeed the picture. I would like to be present the day of that momentous gathering at which Ed and M White first meet for a sophisticated party animal throwdown.

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Monday, 25 December 2006 05:45 (seventeen years ago) link

Or at least see a photoshop of it.

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Monday, 25 December 2006 05:46 (seventeen years ago) link

I have some sympathy with Hurting on this, although it's kind of hard to admit without sounding like a tightwad or a rube- "How did my nice little twenty dollar meal get to THIRTY dollars?!?"

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Monday, 25 December 2006 05:59 (seventeen years ago) link

i once paid $15 for two cups of coffee, that was dumb

friday on the porch (lfam), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:00 (seventeen years ago) link

Well, the meal was a bit more expensive than that (xpost), and it included other dubious moments, such as a risotto-based appetizer that tasted like mozzerella sticks, complete with marinara sauce - this was Crispo, btw, not some Little Italy tourist trap.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:06 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah, I was just thinking about that, and thinking that when you're really out on the town and the spigot of cash is flowing, who is really going to notice or care about the effect of one glass of wine on the bill.

Ruud Haarvest (KenL), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:11 (seventeen years ago) link

Its not just ONE GLASS OF WINE!!! Its having to either commit to the bottle or buying glasses

jw (ex machina), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:47 (seventeen years ago) link

I guess a bottle isn't such a big deal if you're out with lots of friends but I am on SEXUAL ENCOUNTER usually

jw (ex machina), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:47 (seventeen years ago) link

I am cheap enough to risk not getting laid over this btw

jw (ex machina), Monday, 25 December 2006 06:48 (seventeen years ago) link

anyone that you are on a sexual encounter with who can't deal with half a bottle of wine or multiples there of isn't worth having a sexual encounter with. (Koan 12, Ed's Book of Etiquette)

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 December 2006 08:07 (seventeen years ago) link

OTM

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 18:32 (seventeen years ago) link

ANTI-MUSLIM!!!

bill sackter (bill sackter), Monday, 25 December 2006 18:53 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh wait, I just realized I totally misread Ed's post. I take back my OTM.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 18:55 (seventeen years ago) link

If you drink a whole bottle of wine, you just think your performance is acceptable in a 'sexual encounter' (there must be a better term).

Bob Six (Bob Six), Monday, 25 December 2006 19:00 (seventeen years ago) link

Also, my wife can barely hold her liquor, so I'd be remiss to agree.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 19:06 (seventeen years ago) link

How am I not otm? Half a bottle of wine is not an impediment.

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 December 2006 19:15 (seventeen years ago) link

Quite frankly no girl who can't split a bottle of wine over dinner is going to get far with me.

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 December 2006 19:18 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm not saying you're so off the money, you've never had a nickel in your pocket to call your own, I'm just saying that I would not have been able to marry my wife if I had your standards.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 19:29 (seventeen years ago) link

Half a bottle of wine is not an impediment.

Do you have any theories on driving? Successful encounters surely take as much sensitivity/judgement, skill and sense of timing as driving.

Actually, it woud be an impediment to me. For some reason wine really knocks me out into oblivion without going through a happy pleasantly drunk stage; I don't know if its possible to lack the enzymes to process it?

Bob Six (Bob Six), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:15 (seventeen years ago) link

Everyone's different - I can't drink beer but can drink wine heartily.

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:21 (seventeen years ago) link

The point still stands though that if you aren't interested in having a whole bottle, that you are basically asking to be ripped off in 98% of restaurants or bars if you order a single glass of wine. They don't keep the open bottles to even the lame standards that the whole bottles have usually, and the markup is even more exorbitant (take the per glass price and multiply by at least 4. Note how this will almost always add a decent amount to the price you would've paid for a full bottle). You're better off with cocktails or a beer. Though I have seen people order whole bottles in restaurants and then take off with the undrank remainder as well, recorking the thing, though I'm not sure if that is considered gauche or not.

The markup in your first post is quite a lot even by most standards but considering a 200%-300% markup on the bottle, then the extra markup they put on you for a single glass...it's a bad idea to just order one glass of wine. I mean they markup single glasses for a reason, which is that you might be the only person for weeks who will order a single glass of this wine. This never happens but it is the theory. You're cutting into their inventory without any guarantee that the bottle will get finished.

Quite a few places have started offering half bottles, consider that in the future.

xpost suzy, Bob and Ed are all OTM depending on who you are. I mean there are tons of people who can drink a whole bottle of wine and be mostly or entirely fine. There are people who are actually allergic to wine, and get blitzy on a glass. That's just common sense; think about a liquor like tequila where half everyone who drinks it turns into mild-mannered Bruce Banner, but the other half Hulk-smashes everything in sight.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:24 (seventeen years ago) link

also lfam what in the world with the coffee.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:27 (seventeen years ago) link

Sadly, I am doomed to by-the-glass drinking unless a half bottle or carafe is offered - at least when it's just the two of us.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:34 (seventeen years ago) link

Otm ally, the 750ml bottle has evolved over time to be a sensible portion over an evening.
No offence to misses Hurting but I'm from a family of drinkers and although it would not be a deal breaker, I'm not sure how far any affair with a non-drinker would got with me.

Ed (dali), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:45 (seventeen years ago) link

That makes perfect sense - it'd be awkward for you to be finishing half-bottles of wine with your mate sober. I'm not a heavy drinker myself, so it works fine.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 20:51 (seventeen years ago) link

What I really don't understand is why you'd be so terribly offended by the beer post. THe markup on beer at sporting events and a very large portion of bars nowadays is well upwards of 500% which is a lot less reasonable than the wine markup, especially considering there is very little theory behind beer markup besides "captive audience." Or, if there is a valid reason to 500% markup domestic mass produced beer, I have yet to hear it.

A lot of Spanish places offer the half bottle, not even just "upscale" ones, so that's one place to keep an eye out for it. There never seems to be as big a percentage markup on the half bottles as there are on the regular size, as well, oddly.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Monday, 25 December 2006 21:20 (seventeen years ago) link

US bars often give free soft drinks to a group's DD.

US bars often give free alcoholic drinks to a group's DD, if she's a she. This is what a DD-bearing friend of mine once termed the "double-D discount".

On topic: I didn't see anyone mention above what an injustice "corkage" fees are. It does seem like a terribly silly concept.

I will catch fire religious cowards and is all that you Need. (goodbra), Monday, 25 December 2006 21:53 (seventeen years ago) link

if you can't fuck after drinking a whole bottle of wine - let's say half just for the benefit of little people - you should off yourself

jw (ex machina), Monday, 25 December 2006 23:07 (seventeen years ago) link

you sound like a discerning drinker and fine conoisseur of the grape...

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a82/bobbysixer/happyhour2.jpg

Bob Six (Bob Six), Monday, 25 December 2006 23:28 (seventeen years ago) link

Hello stalking.photobucket.com

jw (ex machina), Monday, 25 December 2006 23:38 (seventeen years ago) link

I had a hunch that photo would come in handy.

Bob Six (Bob Six), Monday, 25 December 2006 23:44 (seventeen years ago) link

What I really don't understand is why you'd be so terribly offended by the beer post.

No hard feelings - it was a late night stupor post.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Monday, 25 December 2006 23:46 (seventeen years ago) link

If it were legal in more states to take partial bottles of wine home from a restaurant, I'd buy more bottles than glasses when I'm traveling on project work. I never think ahead enough to keep a sealable container in my purse to sneak the remnant out in, plus open container laws are a problem.

jaq (jaq), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 01:05 (seventeen years ago) link

last date i went on, one bottle of wine wasn't enough.

ian (orion), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 01:40 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm all about by-the-glass. In part because even if I love wine I'm far from a huge drinker and it's more cost-effective. And in part because often when eating in a nice place I'm traveling on business and usually dining alone unless absolutely necessary otherwise. But also because it allows for maximum flexibility - you can get a different drink to pair with different courses, and you don't have to negotiate a compromise with the person you're with. Sure, the full-bottle list is usually better than the by-the-glass list, but the latter list is usually perfectly adequate at most of the places I eat.

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 01:41 (seventeen years ago) link

as for the markup issue, I'd say caveat emptor - I prefer lower markups to higher too, but I'd say the onus is on you to know what stuff costs

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 01:46 (seventeen years ago) link

gabbneb has no friends

jw (ex machina), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 03:28 (seventeen years ago) link

Gabbneb OTM for the plus side of by-the-glass, even if the markup is extravagant.

My most favorite kinds of places = good food and atmosphere, excellent wine list, and one-night-per-week 50% off all bottles of wine. Hello Dulce's in Madrona - see you on Wednesdays :)

jaq (jaq), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 04:11 (seventeen years ago) link

gabbneb doesn't want his co-workers making his restaurant choices for him

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 04:43 (seventeen years ago) link

My experience:

Bottle usually = $2-$5 less than glass price times 4. Often the bottle price = exactly 4 times the bottle price.

Bottle price is usually 2 times retail. This as been the case at all 5 restaurants I've worked at, and most others I've visited.

Bin 36 in Chicago offers most of their glass pours by the bottle for about only a few bucks more than liquor store prices. Cuvee le Bec by Beckman Vineyards is an amazing blend of Rhone varietals that they sell for $20, while at the liquor store it is $15.

Also, give it some thought and then explain why corkage fees are an "injustice" and a "terribly silly concept" at a non-BYOB establishment. The restaurant is allowing you to bring sand to their beach. They are pouring, refilling and washing he glasses and losing sales from their own list.

The same principle applies for folks who wish to bring their own desserts or kosher and restricted diets foods--a set fee sligthly offsets the profits the restaurant loses from having these guests receive service, and take space that could go to a paying guest.

crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 05:05 (seventeen years ago) link

Here is the thread where I boast about the wine that I done drank over Xmas..

a 1986 St. Emilion
several 2000 Pomerols
'Creme de Tete' Sauternes (no idea the year)

actually that's all I can remember. they were all 'free'.

I had dinner out in Bordeaux at a fairly pricey restaurant (entrees were 18-25 euro, which is a lot for Bordeaux) and no bottle was more than 30 euro. i imagine all of them would be at least 60 bucks in an American joint.

Euai Kapaui (tracerhand), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 13:16 (seventeen years ago) link

there may be a few middlemen involved

I had some pretty bad verres and demis in Paris, but I was usually ordering the cheapest or house stuff, so I suppose it serves me right.

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 14:57 (seventeen years ago) link

bad wine in paris = bad beer in prague?

TOM. BOT. (trm), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 15:05 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah I guess I'm saying 'for cheap, quality wine in restaurants, go to Bordeaux.' Uh. Yeah.

Euai Kapaui (tracerhand), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 15:45 (seventeen years ago) link

The Brouillys and Beaujolais that many cafes in Paris serve are mediocre at best.

I like half-bottles in restaurants if only to pair wine to different starters/main courses.

Also, give it some thought and then explain why corkage fees are an "injustice" and a "terribly silly concept" at a non-BYOB establishment. The restaurant is allowing you to bring sand to their beach. They are pouring, refilling and washing he glasses and losing sales from their own list.

OTM. Also, if you really don't like their wine, why are you dining there? The only times I ever bring wine somehwere is when it's really remarkably good and I'm certain it will go well with something on the menu. If you've been consistently nice to the server and the manager in the past, and if you offer them a taste, I find, half of the time, that they'll waive corkage, especially if you order enough for them to make a decent profit/tip.

Michael White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 18:30 (seventeen years ago) link

gabbneb doesn't want his co-workers making his restaurant choices for him

agreed. See also: Wine-for-dummies bro-in-law who insists every wine smell of "sweaty saddles". I've had quite enough of that, thanks.

Another fave place: Lotus of Siam in Las Vegas brought out sips of 7 different German whites from Kabinett to Auslese so we could see how a sweeter white really broadened a spicy thai dish. We really liked a Spatlese (Josef Leitz Rudesheimer Magdalenenkreuz).

I've heard tales of corkage horror: diners bringing their $5 Yellowtail, etc. Which I think they should be pitched out on their ear for.

jaq (jaq), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Sweet whites, for me especially Alsatian wines, are great with spicy cuisines like Vietnamese.

Michael White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:19 (seventeen years ago) link

Agreed, chilled almost to the point of freezing. Sweet and light though, nothing too syrupy. A lovely Muscat de Rivesaltes would be good too or a Hungarian tokai. I think Sauternes would be too much.

Ed (dali), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:24 (seventeen years ago) link

I agree.

Michael White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:28 (seventeen years ago) link

possible reasons to uncork your own wine in a restaurant:
1. it's a special occasion and you have a wine you've been saving for some time
2. someone you're eating with brings a wine as a gift
3. you're in wine county and you want to drink something you bought after a tasting

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:29 (seventeen years ago) link

Also, give it some thought and then explain why corkage fees are an "injustice" and a "terribly silly concept" at a non-BYOB establishment. The restaurant is allowing you to bring sand to their beach. They are pouring, refilling and washing he glasses and losing sales from their own list.

My comment was primarily intended to bring the concept of "corkage" into the debate. That said, I never incur corkage fees myself, because simply bringing wine to an establishment at which I intend to dine is 1. evidence of foolish wine-nerditude, 2. an insult to the restaurant, and 3. evidence of a weak constitution: A wine good enough to be taken to a restaurant surely ought be consumed prior to dining. If the diners in question cannot handle another bottle, then perhaps the alcohol ought be skipped and the establishment's wrath abided.

But Abraham said, Jump! (goodbra), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 19:58 (seventeen years ago) link

If I was doing that, for any of the reasons gabbneb was suggesting. I would phone ahead and agree. I'd expect the bums rush if I just turned up with a bag full of bottles.

Ed (dali), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 20:04 (seventeen years ago) link

I'd phone too. Also, if any of the wine in question was on the restaurant's wine list, I'd buy it instead.

A dream dinner though - two or three extra-special bottles and a special occasion AND a great relationship with a favorite place to eat. I'd call them, describe the wines and let them craft a wonderful meal to go with. Mmmmm sigh.

jaq (jaq), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 20:14 (seventeen years ago) link

A wine good enough to be taken to a restaurant surely ought be consumed prior to dining.

Why?

crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 21:27 (seventeen years ago) link

There are great wines that are even better with food.

crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 21:27 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh dear, it would never even occur to me to bring a bottle to a non-BYOB place. That just seems...well, I mean I wouldn't bring my own 6-pack to a bar, let's put it that way, no matter how high the quality of my own pack. Why not just stay in? 1 & 2 of gabbneb's reasons seem definitely reasonable but still why not save the gift wine for another occasion, and why not stay in with the special wine and a special meal? #3, btw, is not really a valid reason--I have been to wine country and there wasn't a single thought in my head that it wouldn't be rude to uncork the recently purchased bottle instead of sampling something else at the restaurant.

I don't know, I have a lot of rules about going out dining, perhaps it is because I'm a good cook and am just not a person to dine out by myself in a nice, fancy restaurant if I'm on a trip or working late, so 90% of the reason to go to a restaurant is to sample what the restaurant has, not what I can do up myself at my house.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 21:41 (seventeen years ago) link

I personally can't imagine bringing my own bottle, but my 3 examples are scenarios where I think it would be justified.

#1 - I think it quite likely that one could find themselves in a position to have a bottle much older (and more personal) than anything offered by many very good restaurants. For many people, it might be more appropriate to open this at home with a homemade meal, but not everyone is a cook and even if you have the skill and inclination you're probably not going to match an excellent, special occasion restaurant in quality (ignoring personality).

#2 - I might be more interested in not being rude to my dining companion than in not being rude to the restaurant.

#3 - I have yet to go to wine country - this will change soon, hopefully - but it does seem that California is particularly open about corkage, and in some of your midrange wine country restaurants it seems far from unheard of.

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 22:23 (seventeen years ago) link

and my initial point was a) I'm not sure there are any other situations where bringing your own is justified, and b) I think such examples explain why restaurants at least profess to welcome personal wines beyond yr basic market forces/customer-is-right attitude

nuneb (nuneb), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 22:30 (seventeen years ago) link

The purported snootiness of sommeliers is not always as accurate a description of reality as it may sound. The one-time sommelier of a very reputable SF restaurant was once asked about a very special wine for a couple's anniversary dinner. He recommended some kind of Montrachet, I believe, based on what they were envisioning ordering and they took him up on it. Later in the evening, he noted when they left that they had barely dented the bottle. He tasted it, found it corked and had the restaurant call to offer to refund the money on the wine (and the tip thereon). He asked me if he looked so frightening that people would be willing to pay a couple of hundred bucks rather than complain.

Michael White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 22:54 (seventeen years ago) link

When I've been buying wine at vineyards, it's been to cellar - I've never thought about drinking it at dinner that night, especially after a long day of tasting. But that's me. The exception I guess was the bottle of vintage and well-aged port bought on someone's birthday on a wine tour in South Australia which we killed off that night on a hotel balcony.

jaq (jaq), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 23:12 (seventeen years ago) link

You killed off the wine tour on a balcony?

Michael White (Miguelito), Tuesday, 26 December 2006 23:34 (seventeen years ago) link

Messy, but necessary.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 00:47 (seventeen years ago) link

I suspect Miss Jaq on the balcony with the Pinot Grigio.

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crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 02:55 (seventeen years ago) link

Re: #2, if your dining companion is bringing YOU wine as a gift (ie not bringing it to your house for a libation at a cocktail or dinner party, which obviously is not the case here), I would consider it rude if they then insisted on opening it and drinking half of it? I mean, imagine your significant other buying you a box of chocolates for Valentine's Day and then you open it and they are nicked at! I think perhaps we are misunderstanding each other via your use of the word "gift" here.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 15:41 (seventeen years ago) link

Ally's right.

Michael White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 15:51 (seventeen years ago) link

Also you are missing out on chance to, at the end of dinner, make the suggestion that you might want to drift on home and try out the bottle.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 15:54 (seventeen years ago) link

Whew, I was wondering about that, because NO WAY would I open a gift bottle and share it (sorry to everyone who has brought wine to our house - if you hand it to Mr. Jaq, he might open it and share, but not me), but I figured it was just my rude, greedy ways.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:03 (seventeen years ago) link

Hmm, now I'm wondering if there could arise a situation where it was unclear whether a bottle was brought to someone's homw as a gift or as a with-dinner bottle? But I guess a gift bottle would be wrapped or in a gift bag.

Not For Use as Infant Nog (A-Ron Hubbard), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:08 (seventeen years ago) link

I had no idea that restaurants that served wine would allow you to bring your own wine. I'd never even consider it.

jaymc (jaymc), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:11 (seventeen years ago) link

The group of us should find a central meeting place to all fly to and have wine and food.

xpost I have always done it like this, "I have brought this bottle of wine that we can have with dinner, if you like!" Basically, if I am at a dinner party, I will bring wine but don't want to presume that the host hasn't already picked wines that would fit their menu better. If it is a cocktail party and lots of people are bringing libations or food though, then I think you really need to put it in the "for the party" pile, unless the givee explicitly says otherwise.

If you bring me wine, I generally open it immediately but this is because I am a drunk.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:12 (seventeen years ago) link

were you all envisioning a daet situation? because i was not; i was envisioning, for instance, two couples, two members of which are colleagues, or two groups of extended family members. nor is any insistence involved, but a suggestion on one side or the other. ed's suggestion might be more appropriate than drinking the wine with dinner, but the idea of drinking wine after a meal is pretty foreign to me, personally, at least outside the daet context.

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:13 (seventeen years ago) link

Generally speaking, people (especially groups of people) who bring their own wine to restaurants act like the most entitled and demanding patrons I've ever seen.

Brian Miller (Brian Miller), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:13 (seventeen years ago) link

I should clarify my dinner party situation, the "If you like!" puts the onus on the host obviously, and if they DON'T like to have it with dinner, then feel free to keep it for another time.

xpost no, gabbneb, I am thinking of every scenario in which giving someone a gift in which you then insist on using yourself is rude. If the person you give the gift to OFFERS to open the bottle, then that is different, but your scenario makes it sound like your colleagues or family are just cheap and don't want to have to shell in for a second bottle.

xpost Brian OTM. I still am not really sure why you'd bring and open a bottle of wine in a restaurant that has a wine list, though the "very special occasion" option does make sense (if you call and ok first though, I think).

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:15 (seventeen years ago) link

I think, as host it is your prerogative to decide what gets served when. For starters the wine they have brought might be thoroughly unsuitable for to accompany whatever else is going on (food, drinks whatever), for starters, your guests might have really poor taste in wine and you can save it for the let's drink everything stage of the evening.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:16 (seventeen years ago) link

It is not a "gift" if the person brings the wine to the restaurant with every intention of suggesting that the bottle be opened and consumed by everyone, including the gift-giver. That's just bringing alcohol to a restaurant.

xpost or for cooking.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:17 (seventeen years ago) link

I would say Reykjavik as a central location, except the food is good if not what we are looking for and the wine, well let's just say we'd have to bring our own.

I can offer the South of France or a field on the West Coast of Sri Lanka as locations.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:19 (seventeen years ago) link

South of France seems most convenient.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:21 (seventeen years ago) link

Where are you planning to Holiday this year?

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:24 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm stuck going to Arizona in March to do my sister's wedding so I don't know after that, depends on $$ situation and time situation :(

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:25 (seventeen years ago) link

i am not envisioning being the person who brings the bottle, but being the person who the bottle is brought to, where the person who brings the bottle makes the suggestion (though i wonder if there might be times when you are the person who makes the suggestion - if, say, it's a very good bottle?).

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:30 (seventeen years ago) link

OK now I'm lost. Are you saying the person who BRINGS the bottle, which is a gift for you, makes the suggestion? Because you can rephrase that 100,000 ways but it's still rude. If you, as the person receiving the bottle, suggests opening it, then it is just peachy (except for from the standpoint of the waiter and the restaurant, I suppose--I hope people who do this at least tip well).

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Bringing wine to a restaurant without letting the restaurant know beforehand = 100% dud

Brian Miller (Brian Miller), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:36 (seventeen years ago) link

this is semi on topic - i am in non-hypothetical-randycohen/emilypost real life planning on taking a friend + 1 out for a special occasion dinner at a national-class, friendly/unpretentious-seeming, suburban-ish restaurant (that welcomes personal wines per its opentable page (which generally tells you about these things), though this question doesn't have to do with wine). i had considered maybe calling to ask if they could do something special for the occasion. not anything major - i would want to stick completely to whatever their menus might be that day - but some marginal extra (presentation-oriented?) special-occasion-recognizing touch (with dessert?) that i'd be willing to pay for if necessary. is this a bad idea?

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:41 (seventeen years ago) link

No, not at all, I've been to plenty of dinners where say cake has been arranged or cake has been brought in. The act is not the problem as long as you phone ahead. I think with wine though It would have to be something very special before I'd consider it.

I think it gets easier the bigger the party is, but expect to pay a hefty corkage. (we had to pay £12 a bottle corkage for champagne at the venue for my dad's wedding)

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 16:49 (seventeen years ago) link

On my friend Carl0s' last birthday we had a huge meal at a Spanish restaurant he has been frequenting for ages. Not only did the proprietor surprise him with a dessert course and birthday cake (his Spanish mother, who was present, did not arrange beforehand) he also threw in a brandy toast to C's health.

Result was entire family embracing said host on the way out but also HEFTY tip by UK standards plus obvious loyalty for rest of life.

AN Other time at birthday dinner for friend her parents rang in with request for cake, surprising us both.

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:19 (seventeen years ago) link

like you, i was worried that carlos might google this thread

baccarat heads spice pushka underdog official texas holdem bundgee (bundgee), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:41 (seventeen years ago) link

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baccarat heads spice pushka underdog official texas holdem bundgee (bundgee), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:43 (seventeen years ago) link

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suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:47 (seventeen years ago) link

I guess my question is, 'is it an insult to call up one of the best restaurants in the country (world?) and ask for a haute/special version of the candle in the cupcake or the plastic monkey on the drink rim (even if they don't seem to take themselves super-seriously)?' I'd want to stick to their regular dessert menu, though it would be fine to add some special dessert/petit-four-thing to that (which maybe is the answer to my question, actually?. i'm not sure that it would be appropriate to make edible a theme i have in mind, either, though there could be an edible and non-edible part. i guess i could call and ask an open-ended question about what they might be able to do for the occasion and see what they say, but in the interests of flexibility i wouldn't want some special tasting menu.

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:51 (seventeen years ago) link

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baccarat heads spice pushka underdog official texas holdem bundgee (bundgee), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:52 (seventeen years ago) link

Gabb, not a huge insult at all. My second example upthread was at River Café in London - my friend received a birthday cakelet with a lovely sparkler on top and grinned so hard her face nearkly broke.

suzy artskooldisko (suzy artskooldisko), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:56 (seventeen years ago) link

s it an insult to call up one of the best restaurants in the country (world?) and ask for a haute/special version of the candle in the cupcake or the plastic monkey on the drink rim (even if they don't seem to take themselves super-seriously)?'

Hell no. Although I had a candle in my rice pudding on my birthday this year. You can either do cake as an instead of or as well as dessert, up to you. Pick the right cake and it would be perfect as a petit four thing with coffee and a nice close to a meal. At the end of the day the restaurant is there to serve and they will deal with birthdays all the time. The chef, more than likely, has a thing he does for birthdays.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 17:57 (seventeen years ago) link

I think the point that Ally's trying to make is that one doesn't graciously give gifts and then keep tabs on them. Technically, even re-gifting isn't taboo with a gift. The donor gives them freely to the donee who may do with them what s/he will. Unless an invite is explicitly BYOB, I wouldn't even presume to expect the bottle i bring to a friend's dinner to be opened. The host may have a wine especially chosen for the meal or, and I hate to sound mean here but it's happened to me, guest X shows up to party with very, very good bottle of wine. We're serving palatable but lesser wine. I'll suggest to guest X that we share the bottle later but that now it would be a waste since our palates are already besmirched by my cheap plonk. Of course, usually this just backfires since we invariably end up opening guest X's bottle instead of walking to the store for more and I never have even the faintest idea how good the wine was since I drink it when I'm well in my cups. Somehow that seems even ruder than waiting for an optimal moment, though.

Michael White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 18:00 (seventeen years ago) link

Nope, I think it's perfectly acceptable to call and let the restaurant know it's a special occasion and that you are willing to pay for something special and oh by the way could it be something along these lines? Give them enough time to work up the idea, etc. They may also have some suggestions to make the evening more grand.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 18:01 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah, calling the restaurant and requesting that they work up something special that you will, of course, be paying for doesn't seem insulting at all. It's just like if a person walks into a bar and orders a gin and milk, well, the bartender might have his thoughts about that but he'd be remiss to turn the customer down. Some restaurants will be haughty about it but as Ed and jaq have mentioned many restaurants, especially very upscale people-save-money-to-come-here-on-occasions type places will have suggestions and special things they do or at least might hold you the nice table.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 18:24 (seventeen years ago) link

I can honestly say, after lo these many years on this earth, no one has ever brought a bottle of wine to a restaurant and given it to me. So that particular question of etiquette is to me obscure. I tend to think it's a little more... CONVIVIAL to hold off on such presents until one is invited to the giftee's home. (If that never happens, then - c'est la vie.) And yeah, I are being in agreement with the others here about calling ahead for a special request. Totally cool, and you've got nothing to lose.

Euai Kapaui (tracerhand), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 18:59 (seventeen years ago) link

The restaurant where I work does a "plating" fee for people who bring their own food. I can't remember exactly, but I think that for desserts it's around $2.50/head.

A few weeks ago we had a large group that included a bunch of Orthodox Jews. The OJ's brought their own hermetically sealed food that we had to heat up and serve. *That* wasn't a pain in the ass on a busy night during convention season.... I think we went with $15 a head on that one.

crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:04 (seventeen years ago) link

You brought me a bottle of champagne to my birthday and we drunk it at the Union Tavern because they had shut the bar by the time we got there.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:06 (seventeen years ago) link

Gab, if it's a national class restaurant they're probably very accustomed to being a special destination and have something or a variety of things they're already set up to do and will be able to suggest something that's special for the guests but pretty routine to them.

Time/money/location permitting, the best way to make a special request at a restaurant is to go in on a slow night and have dinner or drinks there and ask the bartender/server about it - they'll either have a suggestion or send you to the manager. People tend to be much nicer about things like this in person, and it's good to show that you're putting the time and effort into it.

Brian Miller (Brian Miller), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:18 (seventeen years ago) link

^^^ OTM

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:26 (seventeen years ago) link

I was annoyed though recently when I brought a favorite bottle of wine to a dinner party ("Shall I bring anything?" "Bring wine!"), carefully chosen with the specific menu in mind, and the hostess said, "Wow, thanks -- we'll SAVE this one!" and proceeded to pour the other guests' contributions instead.

Paul Eater (eater), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:31 (seventeen years ago) link

Oh dear, see if the host TELLS people to bring wine deciding after the guest brings the wine that, actually, it will be treated as a gift is a bit off as well. You can't tell people to bring beverages and then hoard them yourself.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:38 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah. We go to loads of parties where we're expected to bring wine as a contribution and I have no compunction, then, about asking, after I've said hello, where the corkscrew and glasses are. If I bring something to a party, I'd at least like to taste it.

Michael White (Miguelito), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:41 (seventeen years ago) link

You can't tell people to bring beverages and then hoard them yourself.

This is true; even I wouldn't do that.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:42 (seventeen years ago) link

The answer to all of this is that we should only meet our friends in restaurants, and agree to bring non-digestible gifts from this point forward.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:45 (seventeen years ago) link

Or drink more till you get to your bottle.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:46 (seventeen years ago) link

Allyzay, if this is still open when you are in Phoenix, give it a go, if only for one of his desserts.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:52 (seventeen years ago) link

But when there's clearly been way too much wine brought to the party, it's unseemly for everyone to jockey for their bottle to be drunk. I suppose that's the host's fault (or scheme).

How good are you all at asking "How much is that?" when the server suggests something? I was sideswiped by a $38 glass of champagne the other night.

Paul Eater (eater), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:53 (seventeen years ago) link

I get carried away by server's suggestions and neglect to ask. My ploy now is to ask them to point it out on the wine list, which with luck I will have open at that point. Then I can catch myself before plummeting over the brink into "oh my yes!"

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 19:56 (seventeen years ago) link

Pizzeria Bianco is supposed to be amazing too. I keep going to Phoenix and never getting a chance to eat out.

Paul Eater (eater), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:07 (seventeen years ago) link

I NEVER eat out in Phoenix, I will have to keep the suggestion in mind if I can get away for a period.

RE: Party wine, I think that at the very least the host shouldn't outright state they aren't going to serve your wine. Placing it towards the back of the queue in hopes it won't get that far is a bit manipulative but acceptable in a too-much-bevvy situation.

I am terrible at actually asking how much something is, I breathed some relief Christmas night when a friend asked the server how much the bottle that we eyed up (TRUE FACT: BECAUSE IT WAS PLACED ON OUR TABLE, I WILL ADMIT THIS BUT RESTAURANT IS CANNY IF THEY KNOW MY PREFS WITHOUT ME HAVING GONE THERE!!). It wasn't on the menu and I wasn't going to ask--thankfully, it was very reasonably priced.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:16 (seventeen years ago) link

When come back, bring pie

Paul Eater (eater), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:24 (seventeen years ago) link

OMG thank you!

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:27 (seventeen years ago) link

some places will give you the champagne without even asking if you want it, i understand. my default is to take a rather transactional view of the experience.

jaq - would you by any chance know the name of the grilled fish large/zoo-like in-the-round place in scottsdale (?) that I ate at in the late '80s or very early '90s?

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:32 (seventeen years ago) link

There used to be a really stellar Cuban place in north Phoenix called Havana Cafe, but I think it's either permuted or closed now. I haven't been down there in years, but Nick really is legendary. He always put on a massive Thanksgiving feast for the homeless, whether he had a restaurant of his own going or not, when I was living there.

Gabbneb - Was it in the old town part of Scottsdale, or the newer part up north by the resorts?

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:37 (seventeen years ago) link

i'd guess the latter but don't know

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 20:39 (seventeen years ago) link

I'm remembering the nautical themed Rusty Pelican, Taylor's Chowderhouse, and Pier D'Orleans, but I don't remember zoo-like in-the-round-ness. Z-Tejas had just opened in that time frame at the Fashion mall, and that was big news (ancho chili fudge pie anyone?) Ed Debevic's was the most zoo-like place I remember, but no fish (burgers). At that time, up north Scottsdale would have meant a good long drive through the desert, where now it is freeway/development.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:02 (seventeen years ago) link

There was an excellent Italian place in Scottsdale (regular version) in some kind of a strip mall/office park type thing whose name I forget completely. There was also a restaurant that was mainly underground, served seafood, in the middle of nowhere kind of near the reservation (might not be middle of nowhere anymore, this was mid to late 90s). Neither of these places can I remember the name of to find out if they are still around.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:10 (seventeen years ago) link

I have eaten at the underground place. Salt Cellar? Something like that.

Gabb, I think your place might have been the Famous Pacific Fish Company.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:13 (seventeen years ago) link

Yes, Salt Cellar seems correct to me!

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:14 (seventeen years ago) link

ps. I've been buying wine on-line from wine.woot.com when they have a good deal. Shipping is only $5.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:21 (seventeen years ago) link

I need to get better clued up on wine merchants in the pas de calais, it looks like I'm going to be in belgium a lot in Q1 2006.

Ed (dali), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:27 (seventeen years ago) link

Gabb, I think your place might have been the Famous Pacific Fish Company.

yes! thanks.

There was an excellent Italian place in Scottsdale (regular version) in some kind of a strip mall/office park type thing whose name I forget completely.

Vincent's on Camelback? (nee Vincent Guerithault on Camelback?) which is Provencal-Southwestern?

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:36 (seventeen years ago) link

I remember most the focaccia (fougasse, I guess?) there

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:37 (seventeen years ago) link

Vincent's doesn't seem right, it was definitely Italian, or at least a lot more Italian than the online menus are implying. Though it did have extremely memorable focaccia, the reason I remember the place so well is because it was one of maybe the two best restaurant free breads I've ever had.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:39 (seventeen years ago) link

yeah, I remember a place in a weird stripmall setting with memorable focaccia. I was pretty certain it was Vincent's, but not 100%.

nuneb (nuneb), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:49 (seventeen years ago) link

Yeah, it doesn't even look like a restaurant from outside, right? It looks like it's probably a vet, or a dentist. Then you get inside and, mmmm, delicious focaccia. Maybe it was Vincent's, I mean he could've easily more Frenchified the menu in the past, oh, ten freaking years...The "classics" menu is a lot more Italiany than the new menu.

Allyzay heard you got beat up in a club. (Allyzay Eisenschefter), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 21:50 (seventeen years ago) link

I don't know - Vincent's has always been pretty focused on French and Southwestern. Maybe it was Tomaso's? It's very strip-mallish.

jaq (jaq), Wednesday, 27 December 2006 23:01 (seventeen years ago) link

I was at Mikey's Irish pub tonight where apparently it's BYOMeat. Ground pepper is .50¢ extra.

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/130/335967692_d3ca9ccb23_o.jpg

crunkleJ (crunkleJ), Thursday, 28 December 2006 06:04 (seventeen years ago) link

Ally, next time you come to London we should eat in St John, even if only in the Bar. It is a worthwhile and rewarding experience.

It sounds like somewhere I'd like too. We will be over at the end of January and will perhaps give it a go.

Jaq's not opening gift wine things is so true. If we're going to someone's house and have gift wine to bring, we'll usually bring slightly less gift wine for opening then and there. Of course, we might be invited back to drink the gift wine at another time, which is always nice.

The nicest sommelier I ever met worked (probably still works) at Le Crocodile, which is a lovely French restaurant in Vancouver. Mister Monkey took me there once when he had silly money, and we had just started going out together. We had the most romantic meal and drank a 1995 Chateau Beauregard, which was beautiful. We chatted pleasantly with the sommelier and asked him about Canadian wines. I told him I was going home soon and had read a magazine article about ice wine and asked him if he had any recommendations. He brought out a few dessert wine glasses and described some of the ice wines to me and let me taste them for free, which was lovely. Then we bought a Chateau Rieussec to finish off. Yum yum.

We went back to the same restaurant a couple of years later on holidays, and they remembered us. We got free armagnacs. Yum.

accentmonkey (accentmonkey), Thursday, 28 December 2006 10:59 (seventeen years ago) link

Ed - nice! I forgot about that.

Euai Kapaui (tracerhand), Thursday, 28 December 2006 11:24 (seventeen years ago) link

Chateau Beauregard's proprietor:

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/a/a0/Foghorn_Leghorn.png/200px-Foghorn_Leghorn.png

Euai Kapaui (tracerhand), Thursday, 28 December 2006 11:25 (seventeen years ago) link

For reference

http://www.stjohnrestaurant.co.uk/

Ed (dali), Thursday, 28 December 2006 11:32 (seventeen years ago) link

they sell their wines online too

I can recommend this:

http://www.hgwines.co.uk/wines/red/?ID=81&StartRow=1

Ed (dali), Thursday, 28 December 2006 11:33 (seventeen years ago) link

Or maybe it is this one, I forget:

http://www.hgwines.co.uk/wines/red/?ID=87&StartRow=21

Ed (dali), Thursday, 28 December 2006 11:34 (seventeen years ago) link


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